what do i do when people make fun of me because I'm fat?

Question

some people make fun of me

Answer 1

Ignore them or tell them to shut up.

Answer 2

I'm sorry I don't have any advice for you, but here we go again. What is with this whole, "fat", and "Skinny" thing? What is with people today? TV has brain washed people into thinking that there is only one kind of beautiful, and that is stick figures, that model underwear. Why can't society see that, incase they haven't noticed, noone looks like that! People come in all shapes and sizes, and we are all beautiful. If people make fun of you, there isn't really much you can do, and that is a shame. Just know that they are immature, and have maybe ten whole brain cells, which will probably be waisted in the next five minutes. The human race never ceases to surprise me. It's a shame, actually.

Answer 3

remember that you are beautiful. God made all people in differant shapes and sizes, and people are really immiture to make fun of you. if you don't know how to get people to stop makeing fun of you, try this:
- wear clothes that fit. not to big and not to tight.
-try not to wear any tapered pants. go for a striat leg pant that smooths out your curves.
- DO NOT go to a starvaition diet. if you want to lose wait skip dessert twice a week, try and stick to the main food groups, and walk a mile a day. it is what i do to keep fit and what my sis does to lose a few pounds. my sister lost four pouds in a month. 1lb a week may not seem like much, but it adds up.
-find something you are good at and show the world, then instead of thninking when they see you, she needs to take off a few pounds, they will think, she has the most amazing voice. ( if you are a good singer)
- and always keep in mind, you are beatiful, no matter what they say!
hope my advice helps!
kayli age 12

Answer 4

You need to feel good about yourself, so make sure you have friends who have your back and can help you with your appearance:

First see if there is something about you other than your size that is different than your aquaintences. Sometimes bigger girls wear clothes that are too tight and it accentuates places better left a mystery. See if there are other styles that would look better on you while you are working on losing weight (If that is what you want to do) or just to make you feel better.

You don't say how old you are, but my 14 year-old daughter is heavy and it is amazing what a change in hairstyle, a little make-up and a switch from tight shirts and loose pants to a little looser, prettier style shirt that glides over her belly and a little tighter pants that make her legs look smaller did to make her much more attractive in appearance.

Keep your chin up and remember that during the teen years looks are transitional--always changing!

Answer 5

Learn to laugh at yourself. If you're fat, you're fat. Learn to turn it into something funny. Did you watch The Last Comedian Standing? Josh Blue has cerebral palsy and hasn't let it get in his way toward a productive career. He won the contest in spite of his condition because he doesn't look at it negatively. There are many fat successful people who have simply done the best with what they have. You can do it too, if you really want to.

Answer 6

If it bothers you, then loose weight. If it doesn't, then continue to ignore them, they are just immature and insecure about themselves, thus the need to make fun of someone else in order to make themselves feel better.
P.S. If you are just a little overweight/pudgy then fine, but if you are really obese then you should look into loosing weight as it will only cause you health problems and a shorter life span.

Answer 7

people that make fun or u becuase of ur body image r either insecure or obnoxious and unintelligent...either way its their loss...either ignore them.. or show them that ur comfertable with ur body and their opinion means nothing to them ...tell them " its too bad that ur insecure enough to talk about my body but unlike u im perfectly happy with the way i am and ur the last person on the planet i would change for..in fact i dont have to change for anyone becuase i'm happy with myself and ur opinion means nothing so i suggest u go out and get some self-respect before making fun of people again" say this with confidence and show them that no matter what they say ur still going to be happy with who u r

Answer 8

If their comments bother you, that means you don't feel happy with the way you look. In that case I would suggest you to try to lose some weight until you reach the size you are comfortable with.

Answer 9

Ignore them. They're most likely insecure about themselves so they're taking it out on you. Just be the better person and don't let it get to you.

Answer 10

tell them to go pound sand and get a life. If the only reason they are doing that is to make themselves better...then you are better than them.

if you are happy with who you are and how you look, who cares what they think.

Answer 11

jsut ignore them. they just need to make fun of people to feel better about themselves. its really sad.