My best friend (a girl) and I have been close friends for 2 years now. Practically doing everything together, never seperated. Until recently when she has met this guy and started seeing him. I am now starting to feel left out, and she does not spend as much time with me anymore. When I do see her she is with this guy, and I can't even speak to her on the phone without this guy talking in the background. I have tried speaking to her about it, but whenever I do she takes it badly and starts arguing with me. She keeps telling me that the friendship is changing but it won't affect it much. But it is affecting it quite drastically actually. I am very jealous and angry with their relationship getting in the way of our friendship and now feel really lonely and upset.
Is it best to let her get on with this and leave her be, and let her go, and she may come to her senses in the coming week or run the risk that she may not or try and work things out, but how?
2006-08-13 10:15:29 · 7 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DONT wait for her to call you or wait for her to come back to her sense...I have been waiting like u for my best friend after I left her(14 years of friendship) to feel my absence from her life or would she Misses me or something but nothing happened...and I tell you BEST FRIENDS is too hard to find and to hard to loose..try to find something to feel ur time except her..go out with other friends...be close to ur other friends...dont make ur whole life depends on what she wants..but DONT leave her..just make her less important for you..maybe she will realize and by time she well become close to you again..DONT make my fault again !!!!
2006-08-13 11:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by friendly GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god, this is the exact same thing almost that i'm going through. My best friend and i were always together until she met her boyfriend, and she is with him constantly and hardly bothers with me anymore. This really upsets me so i talked to her about it, and she said she wants things to change, and save our friendship. You could try talking to her once more, try not to get angry with her, just tell her how much you miss her and dont want to lose her. If she still doesn't listen then just give her some space, and move on. She will probably realise she does miss you, and will come running. But whatever you do, don't give up on her all together.
2006-08-13 17:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by kitkat_55 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happens in pretty much every friendship. Just let her know that you feel like you're growing apart, and that you would like to have some "friend" time maybe once a week or something like that. If things don't work out for them I can pretty much guarantee that she will come back needing support, and you should be there for her if that does happen.
2006-08-13 17:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your best friend back, well don't argue with her, just let her know you'll always be there for her whenever she needs you. Don't force the issue the more you try to pull her away from this guy is the more she'll want to be with him. You can play it two ways either chill out or get yourself a girlfriend to, could never know she might be the one whose jealous.
2006-08-13 17:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face u guys arn't dating!So she just wanna hang if ur bf!I think u should leave then alone 4 a while the see if she likes it that way
2006-08-13 17:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you & your friend should talk about this & tell her how you feel.
2006-08-13 17:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by peterboro_first 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thick you like her thats why you are like that
2006-08-13 17:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋