How come I can only have an "O" by vibrating stimulation? I have tried everything and nothing works but vibrating stimulation. It is really starting to bother me.
2006-08-13 10:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thats normal, 80% of women get "O'' from clitoral stimulation, most women do not have "O" from sex.
2006-08-13 10:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by m1ndless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is how the majority of women are. If you get the right guy he will be able to do it, but it will still more than likely be clitoral stimulation. The best thing I've come up with is to use a vibrating bullet while having sex.
2006-08-13 17:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try vibrator with other techniques together. Experiment with different kinds, speeds, textures, etc and see if you can come up with a combo that doesn't seem to bother you so much. Keep cutting back on the toys. good luck
To the people who answered this question, why do you mention that a man will be able to help her ? This is a gaysite. Pay attention.
2006-08-17 04:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too inhibited? Or maybe you are too impatient when it comes to the old fashioned way; vibes give you them fast, but the long build-up in other methods can be much better. Try going without for a long time (whatever that is to you, a day, a week, a month) and then do it with your finger or a tongue. Make sure you get a lot of foreplay and focus on how it feels. If your partner can't do it for long enough, give them a rest for a bit while you use other methods. OR: go most of the way there with a vibe but finish off with another method to train yourself to have O's through other means.
2006-08-13 17:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by theobromo77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt, that you are that unusual. Everyone has a different intensity level at which certain stimulation will produce the O. The truth is, the means of which you speak of, is usually a much more intense feeling (stimulation) than many other forms of stimulation (especially those stimuli produced by a man, unless he is really patient, innovative, and his intent is on taking the time to really please his lady).
2006-08-13 17:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that excessive use of vibrating stimulation on the clitoris will cause some level of desensitizing. Maybe you should try not using it for a while.
2006-08-13 17:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by CuriouslySpeaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes things other than vibrators will take more time and alot of women will give up before they reach orgasm. most women need ALOT of foreplay to get excited enough to have an orgasm during sex and most girls wont even have their first intense orgasm until they are in their 20's. i suggest you look up masterbation on the web just try to stay away from the porn sites you will get from some of the searches because alot of those porn sites will put spyware and adware on your computer which will slow it down alot.
2006-08-13 20:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you can to some point lol, some girls say they can't get one ! Umm do you have this problem when you're with your partner ? Maybe you should let her know the things that you wish her to do for you , maybe she's not doing it right
2006-08-13 17:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by maltese 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women's clitoris is located further back by their vagina, so during intercourse their mates penis rubs against their clit and therefore stimulates it. i think the majority of women feel how you feel, so there is no need to worry about it.
2006-08-13 17:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe your body is just to tensed for anything but a vib.. stimulation...
2006-08-13 17:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy LoVe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋