(boys and girls)do you agree?

Question

im 13 but most ppl guess im 15 my new bf IS 15 and just asked me out. i really like him and its good that he asked me. but anyways my mom thinks hes 2 old 4 me i dont think so but let me give u some info i dont act my age im very mature and i know how 2 keep my legs shut im very responsible i know how to say NO and mean it he knows im only 13 and iv heard boys are only out to get one thing but he knows my age and i dont think he'll try to pull that on me plz give ur honest answers boys and girls

Answer 1

ok.

Answer 2

At 13, you should not be expected to take on the responsibility of making life-long decisions. Dating, by its very nature, will put you in the position of making decisions that could alter your life forever, and under pressure you may or may not be expecting or prepared to deal with or recognize. And the same goes for him! He may not "think" he will put the move on you, and you might be convinced that he won't... But that right there tells me you are too naive and too trusting, not realizing what the realities are. You do not expect to be faced with the situation. Yet, dating sets the stage, and it can get bigger than you are without your realizing it.... Believe that.... Its tough enough sometimes for ADULTS. Its just an unfair expectation for a kid. Sorry...
Life-altering decisions are still the responsibility of your parents, and they are charged with ensuring that any such choice or decision is in YOUR BEST INTERESTS. Your Mom knows this, probably from the been there done that school of life, and now from BOTH sides! Hers AND Yours!. She was 13 once too... remember that.... She ain't stupid.
You are too young to date. Period. No matter the age of the boy.
If that young man is really interested in spending time with you, he should be content to spend it in the way that is best for you: As a guest of the family. As years go by, and he gets older and you get older, he will date and you will date. Either each other (probably not) or someone else.
Those tough situations come soon enough in life. Don't rush it. Let your parents carry that load as long as you can. Once you pick it up, you can never put it down, and its a long life... Particularly if its lived with decisions made before their time.

Answer 3

I'm 19 and i personally don't think that the age difference is that much of a deal. when i was 13 i only dated guys older than me. but your mom is just concerned. and its true that most teen-age and basically most guys are just out to get in your pants. if you don't think hes like that then just keep an eye on him. you never know these days. but i would have a serious conversation with my mom if i were you and just explain to her everything. and tell her to just trust you on this for once.

Answer 4

If you were my daughter you wouldn't be allowed to date yet. As for as for age difference there is a bigger difference between 13 and 15 then there is between 23 and 25. At your age you are just experience things that he has all ready been through and it will be hard for you to relate to each other. Your just a kid, there will be plenty of time for dating when you are older.

Answer 5

you know what im like a few years older than you and i know that there are a lot of teen guys that only want one thing. but see im friends with like these two dudes that are my age except one is a year older. but anyways. my other guy friend who i have been friends with since 4th grade keeps telling me to stay away from my other guy friends cuz they are just the average teen guys...out for one thing. but see i know my limits. and i am very responsible too. but my long time friend, he keeps telling me to be careful of them and watch out for myself. which i already know hello im not stupid! but i'll just say the same for you...yes you obviously trust him not to pull anything. but just know that if he slips and does happen to try something. well just remember you are a responsible 13yr old and you know how to say no and you can make the right choice. So good Luck! and understand your mom will worry about you anways you're her child she wants the best for you.

Answer 6

I think you should respect your mom's wishes, mostly because she's been through a lot and made her own mistakes, and knows better where things might end up. She's just looking out for your best interest so don't get mad at her for it. That being said, you sound very smart and mature, just as long as you stand your grounds on your morales, and he doesn't make you uncomfortable by pushing you, I think you should be fine.

Answer 7

Your just 13 hes 15 hes done more things then you by now and he might listen to you now but when hes sure you would do anything for him then lets see if you can say no...so don't date him wait until you are a little older.

Answer 8

so you might know how to say no and mean it... but that doesnt stop a guy. when you say no to a guy they just try harder and its really not good. "just once" theyll say... "if you like it well do it again, if you dont then ill stop" its a bunch of bullsh*t and even if you say no they dont listen

be careful. your mom knows what shes talking about. its easy for an older guy to take advantage of a girl your age, no matter how old you may ACT.


goodluck!

Answer 9

I don't think he is to old it is only 2 years differnece. I don't see why it would matter. I am 23 but I know when I was ur age I was dating older guys.

Answer 10

Well Ur mom knows what she is talking about and you should talk, not yell at, to her and tell her that you are mature and all of he other good qualities. Suggest to her that she should meet him (or see more often) and get to know him better. If she still doesnt approve then there are more fish in the sea...

Answer 11

i dont think his to old for u but if his 15 what would he want with a 13 yr old except 4 sex