She moved and she gave me her boyfriends number by mastake and I called his house and he was there I had to drop something off so I want there he was there with all his clothes off.
2006-08-13 09:46:50 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are sorry
2006-08-13 09:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by barrett_s22 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW, this indicates that he is scum and you are no better. Really. So, he knew you were coming over and he was there, with clothes off? Apparently, he wanted you and you wanted him as well because you just would not have had sex with him unless you had conveyed to him that you shared a mutual attraction to him. And then not only did you have sex, but, without protection? This is what Jerry Springer would call another opportunity for the weak minded and plain cruel and gullible to appear on my show. Because, that is where this is headed too. Sad, really. You two really do not love/like, value or cherish anything of your friend. As if she was the butt of your joke-both of yours. When you saw him naked, did it not make you, at that point, realize that he was scum? to leave and tell your friend that he is a bastard and that you would never go back there again? I think not seeing that you had sex with him and now is pregnant with child. You could tell her, but what would this do to her? Do you want to tell her? If you don't, she would never know what kind of husband she has and what kind of a friend she has.
Tell her, tell her what happened, explain how sorry you are and then, walk away. She is not there for you any more.
Wow, she lost her husband and her best friend. And for you, I would get that DNA test and file for support ASAP.
2006-08-13 10:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was a silly thing to do, and that's got to hurt her even more now that there is a baby involved. but you know what, time heals all and soon, none of that will matter, you will have a baby and that is the most important person now. just tell her outright, maybe in a public place, you know, for your protection :) I hate the way though, that the girls ALWAYS lash out on the other girl - as if the fella was taken advantage of because how could he possibly say no when it comes to thinking with the little head!
She'll be mad as hell, but then she will get over it. I wish you all the best with this though.
2006-08-13 10:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't have slept with him in the first place, if she's your best friend. Does he know that you are pregnant? Do they have other children?
Firstly you should tell HIM and perhaps the two of you should decide together, the outcome is something you'll have to deal with - it doesn't sound like you're in love with him or he with you so either you both tell her or you get on with your own life and your baby - it's really a problem all 3 of you have to face or nobody.
If they have kids together - don't tell her or leave the decision up to him.
2006-08-13 10:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Auntie Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one if she was your best friend you would have not done it. Just think how you would feel if the role was switched what would you want to hear? Nothing you say is going to make her forgive you so you might as well just be honest and tell her like it happen. Because she will find out and it is better you tell her then for her to find out from another person.
2006-08-13 09:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by cuteswim_gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? So he answered the door naked balls dangling and you decided to get on top of it? I wouldn't forgive you even if you apologised and you obviously don't know what a best friend is or a condom. What i would do is go to a church confess and hope that she's not some one who gonna beat you the down whether you're pregnant or not.
2006-08-13 09:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by d_armour4 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW. That is bad. You should tell her so she knows what a loser husband she has. You should give the baby up for adoption too, (baby's daddy would have to agree though). You sound like the type who likes to cause too much drama. A kid doesn't need that. They need order, predictability, two parent home, and love.
2006-08-13 09:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jp83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have known better. Just because a man is naked is a dumb *** reason to have sex with him . Being that he was your best friends husband, that is just wrong. You have just ruined your ex friends life. Why didn't you wait until she was there to drop off the items?
2006-08-13 09:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you are not any kind of friend to this woman. Tell her so she can dissassociate from you and the snake. By the way you are a stupid slut and I feel sorry for the baby you are going to have since you are heartless person with absolutely no self control.
2006-08-13 14:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by tryingtolearnsomething 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch well you will tell her what you did and that you are pregnant than you will see a married womens life be ruined. That was a horrible mistake. Good Luck, I wouldnt forgive you. In fact I would beat the shyt out of you too. HIM TOO
2006-08-13 12:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your nasty, why in the world would u do that, your the reason why most girls cant trust there man becuase they have friends like you, instead of hurting her you should protect her and tell her what HE did , but hey god has a plan for you and honey it probly wont be pretty, honestly i hope everything goes ok with the baby and to let you know you probly lost your bestfriend and this dude you slept with
2006-08-13 10:08:02 · answer #11 · answered by LightSkinnedPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋