and is it safe for me to have natural childbirth at home with a freind helping me?what are the risk?will someone give me a website on how to give birth at home?please give me a link to one if you can.the more details it has,the better.and also give me a website on how to help someone else give birth.thanks!
2006-08-13 09:44:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
please give me a website.and i really do want to do this even if i am only 12 3/4!i just need te websites.
2006-08-13 09:56:13 · update #1
i do not want an adult!!!my freind will be helping me if i decide to do this.she is 11.and i need a link on giving birth with help,not alone.and a link for my freind about helping someone give birth and how you do it,what for us to expect,and details on what to do when its time.
2006-08-13 10:41:40 · update #2
there's no way you have to stay home giving birth to that baby....you should go to a hospital....or if u cant go,a doctor to come home.
if either of the cases are possible,then your friend talk to a doctor on the phone in the moment of your birth and tell him every detail and to follow every advice....but I trully recomend you to go to the hospital ;)
2006-08-13 10:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Eva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are 12 and giving birth here is what to expect: Lots of pain. Then, some gooey gunk and blood. More pain. A baby that will very likely not make it, and a mama that might not either. More blood. One scared witless young friend who will never be the same. The risks are that you taking your life in your hands. I've given birth at home, it isn't that I don't support that. You are in extremely high risk group, and you need skilled medical help with this, if you want to survive. Your life and your child's life are at risk. A twelve year old does not have fully developed the width of birth canal that an adult woman has--the baby may well get stuck coming out. Do you really want an eleven year old trying to figure out how to get it out without permanently hurting either of you? Do you want her to live with maiming a child? I really hope you are joking. And if you are only wishing to get pregnant, put it off a few years. Maybe someone will let you watch a childbirth video to give you some self control. Or, just look up the word EPISIOTOMY for starters.
2006-08-17 00:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by marshwiggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do not want to have a baby trust me and at the age of 12 u dont all they do is cry it drives u up the wall i had my first kid at 16 i had to drop out of school u will need to get up with the baby every 3 hours u cant really get much sleep and u need ur education this world u need a diploma to get a good job and u will need one to take care of a baby and haveing a baby at home is NOT safe something could go wrong and being young i hope u listen good luck
2006-08-13 16:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first--it can be very dangerous to give birth at home....but if your TWELVE! then you shouldn't at all. Your body is probably not so secure for having a baby, and you might need a C section....and if theres no doctor there to help, both you and your baby will die. So i suggest 1) do not get pregnant at the age of 12...you'll ruin your life, only whores do that, and your baby won'y have a good life.... and 2) do it at a hospital, like everyone else. kthanx, please spare the baby the misery.
2006-08-13 16:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not safe at all to have a baby at home. If you or it has complications, theres no one there to help you. Secondly, your 12. Its not safe for YOU to have a baby anywhere. Your not fully developed yet. But if all this advice about not having the baby isn't going to change your mind, at least go to a hospital to have it. Where you'll have people there to help you. Your just 12, theres alot that can happen.
2006-08-13 17:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angelpup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is in no way safe for you to have a baby at 12 yrs. Your body is not done developing yet. If you or someone you know is pregnant you need find medical help. There should be a free clinic located in your town, they will be able to assist you there.
2006-08-13 17:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by tiger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU. WHY YOU WANT TO GET PREGNANT HAVE A KID AT 12. Depending on what state you live in you the doctors CANT notify your parents of you being pregnant. HOWEVER IF YOU ARE PREGNANT YOU NEED TO BE RESPONSIBLE AND GET PRENATAL VITAMINS AT ANY STORE TO HELP YOU AND BABY FROM DEVELOPING BIRTH DEFECTS. ALSO GO SEE OB/GYN YOU OPENED YOUR LEGS FOR A STUPID BOY YOU CAN DO THIS FOR YOUR CHILD.
2006-08-14 13:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by rea4154 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4th question and still going strong...
now that i've seen all of ur questions...i'm gonna go harsh on u.
U R BEING SOOOOOOOOOOOO STUPOPID AND U DONT EVEN KNOW IT.
U NEED TO STOP WETTING THE BED FIRST.
UR TECHNICALLY PLANNING UR OWN FUNERAL WITH THIS ONE.
I AM JUST COMPELETELY SPEECHLESS. I'M REALLY HOPING THAT UR NOT SERIOUS ABOUT THIS BUT I REALLY THINK U R.
ASK GOD FOR GUIDANCE HE'LL KNOCK SOME SENSE INTO U DEFINITELY. GO TO UR GUIDANCE COUNSELLOR. GO TO SOMEONE. U CANT HAV A BABY NOW. JUST KNOW THAT.
THATS ALL I HAVE LEFT TO SAY TO U.
2006-08-13 23:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by cute_but_psycho876 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would not be a good decision to have a baby. you are too young to have sex. i hope that you listen to all of the advice that you are getting on here and not think about having a baby. if you are already pregnant please tell an adult that you trust so that you can get a little help.
2006-08-13 17:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by one c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not safe for you to get pregnant at 12!!! If you are pregnant you need to go to a doctor or the local health department!!!
2006-08-13 16:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by jlcampbell06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋