2006-08-13 09:42:18 · 20 answers · asked by shaleshae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Encourage her to think about her future (she could get caught up in the lifestyle). But if she insist then maybe it's not such a good idea for you to remain friends with her at this time. Take a step back and think about yourself before she leads you down that road with her. There is SO much more to life if you stay on the right track (HS, College, Traveling, etc.)
2006-08-13 09:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls/women are drawn to "bad boys". I don't think there is much you can do if she has made up her mind.
I would suggest though that you not let yourself be drawn into that. Sometimes girlfriends of gang bangers get killed because they make themselves a target by getting involved with guys in gangs.
2006-08-13 16:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that girls who are going out in with someone in a gang eveantully end up being in one by force. Women are raped into a gang by every member in the gang. That means if she wants to be with that dude, she is going to get raped by all his friends. Sad but true
2006-08-13 16:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Danny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that he's not a good choice and that she can do so much better than that. Plus, if she hangs out with someone in a gang, she will get a bad reputation and then you will and the chain goes on.
2006-08-13 16:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by hippoz001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the question of boyfriend and all this ,you have to open your eyes and know that the real pupose is the matching and the mariage this is the best way to be happy and succeed in all life ,i think that every body agree with me .
There cant be i got boyfriend all the goal is to sleep with girls so leave all this false histories
2006-08-13 16:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by wewe s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is talk to her about it but if u try to come on to strong she will get pissed at you and that is one thing that you don't want right now instead try talking to her and ask her if she knows what she is getting herself into ect....and if that does not work and you see that it is getting worse then maybe you should tell her mom about what she is doing someone need to help her but stopping her from being with this guy if not there is about a 90% chance that noone will like what happenes to her are what she will become you need to do something fast before it gets to late
2006-08-13 16:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't control her love life, but talk to her in private about your scared feeling for her. tell her that is she dates this boy, she could be in danger because he is part of a gang. also mention that your talking to her about this so she can have good life and be safe, and that even he could mistreat her really badly.
2006-08-13 16:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by pretty little devil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gangs are like a pack of dogs. They can't exist alone. these people are bereft of a purpose. forgo the dog in the pack.
2006-08-13 16:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
join the rival gang
2006-08-13 16:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
make her see the consequences that will occur in the future if she remained with that guy and try always to mix her with good people, maybe she'll meet someone new.
2006-08-13 16:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋