One of his friends was emailing me to hang out with him and my fiancee found out and started imming him letting him think it was me and essentiallly the friend was hitting on me. But the friend told him that he was trying to catch me in a lie. The question is Is it okay for my fiancee and him to hang out again after my fiancee tells him that it is unacceptle if he does it again the friendship will be over for good, My fiancee want's my opinion if it's okay for them to hang out again
2006-08-13 09:37:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Watch out here honey...you could be playing with fire! First of all, his friend is lying. Hopefully neither of you buy the line he fed you. If your fiancee's friend found you attractive then he did and maybe thought he might have a chance to snag a great girl. Not cool but it happens! I would say that if you and your fiancee are happy and committed then you don't need to worry about what foolish things people outside of your relationship do. Obviously we know he thinks your pretty cool but cares enough about his buddy to try to pass off some lame lie about trying to catch you in a lie (you don't just randomly decide to do stuff like that - rolling eyes). Regardless he must like both of you a lot. If you and your guy are committed and he still wants to be friends with each other then let them. Your man is no dummy. He knows to watch his buddy now and men can be friends and keep watch too. It's a gift they have that women don't. Let him forgive his friend and move on. You are now both well aware of his feelings and intentions and hopefully he has learned since he got busted! It sounds like he did. If he does it again you may have to rethink the friendship on a more serious level next time. Good luck to you!
2006-08-13 09:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiancee is dead right about getting rid of that guy, the other guy was being an ****** and trying to break you up for no good reason. The other guy is probably gay and wants you out of the picture so they can hook up, and your fiancee is trying to be tru to u. I'd say don't ever get back with that guy again.
2006-08-13 16:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋