2006-08-13 09:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by klunk 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because you are human. And everyone always takes actions that raist their utility the most. Some people just have different goals than others, thus creating the illusion of a selfless action
2006-08-13 09:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very good that you do realise that. There are many people out there who does not want to admit that honestly.
All these things takes time to grow. When you have this thought in your mind, just keep practising step by step and soon you will be able to care about other people.
It is a kind of energy. Once you start enjoying the happiness of other people, you will be in the grip of joy.
Join some volunteers work in some organisation or your choice and build it up from there.
2006-08-13 16:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by dotab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becuase when you were growing up--you parents probably revolved around YOU. You probably are the YOUNGEST child--as they tend to be Self Absorbed..And you were probably a cute kid--and cute kids get disciplined less...Well, the sad thing is that people like you usually end up to ne billionares like Donald Trump..But life doesnt last forever, and when you die---God will only care about your Heart and what you did for Others..But, by then, it will be too late to make up for the past..So I recommend you volunteering somwhere and helping people--or helping people in your family who need you.
2006-08-13 16:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cus you have probably been hurt by people you care for and you think people with Just hurt you again and again..over over ...and why should you care about others and what they feel ..?? screw them.. they will just treat you like SH!T anyways.. onces you let someone in its the worst thing you can do .. then they gain the power over you.
2006-08-13 16:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narcissism
2006-08-13 16:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jill W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are narsicisstic, which isn't good. I suggest you take some steps to change that. Usually teens are more narsicisstic than anyone, are you under 19?
2006-08-13 16:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been hurt in the past and are now afraid it could happen again? Are you afraid to let go of your emotions and become involved with someone because you're afraid that ultimately you'll be the one that gets hurt?
2006-08-15 05:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im somewhat the same way but sometimes not a lot care for other people.
2006-08-13 16:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by sanchez detail 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your a narcisist.
2006-08-13 16:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, step by step learning.
2006-08-13 16:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Hathor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋