i love my girlfreind and we took a vow on the holy bible to be together forever but we want to ensure thath vow
2006-08-13 08:35:14 · 17 answers · asked by leonard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i love my girlfreind and we made a vow on the holy bible to stay together forever and we've both like each other since we meet kinda like love at first sight
2006-08-13 09:25:48 · update #1
Wait.
You're young. And if you made your vows to each other and to God, that will do for now until you can make them legal in the eyes of Man.
2006-08-13 08:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't and you shouldn't be able to. At 14 you have no idea what adult love is about, you don't even have any idea what adult life is about. I know you are sitting there screaming that you do, yeah whatever, have at it but you don't. And when you are actually a little more grown up you will realize just exactly how much you don't know! Thats really the big difference between adults and teens, adults KNOW how much they don't know, teens think they know everything! How can you possibly have any idea who you will be when you are 25 or 35 or 45? You can't and you don't and neither does she. Its cute and all but don't push it too far and don't make decisions now that will last forever, its just way too far from 14. And if you were really grown up enough to be talking about this stuff you would fully understand what that means.
2006-08-13 08:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 14. You may think that you are in love and could very well be, but 14 is young to make a huge commitment like marriage. I am not sure if you are able to get married legally at the age of 14.Just some 'food for thought'.
2006-08-13 08:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are 14 years old there are many different girls out there but if you really love her then just buy her a promise ring untill your old enough to legally get married (o and if you want to get married at 14 you have to have permission from both parents and im gonna guess that there not gonna approve sry)
2006-08-13 08:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by sexii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you need to live your life frist if you love her like you say then when you are 18 20 25 then ok but for now i dont thing so. you can not live lfe on love alone you need money for bill un less you thing that you mom and dad is going to pay for ever thing for you and like some else said what about baby are you ready to get up all hour of the nite the bill that come with children or do you thing that ever one else out here need to pay for you and your wife and your kids grow up you are talking like a children
2006-08-13 09:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by ****** * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere that I know of and besides why do you want to be married at 14? It is only going to end in someone getting hurt. Because you are both too young to know what love is..Puppy love maybe but not real love
2006-08-13 08:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 14 you do not need to get married and when you do you will realize it is not so bad to be single. If you are expecting you really need to talk to your parents. If you can not talk to your parents then find outside help. This is just to big of a situation to go it alone. Talk to a preacher you will get some answers. Good Luck
2006-08-13 08:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by J J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP now and think..
You cannot fet married at the age of fourteen for very good reasons. Just enjoy each others company and friendship as teenagers should. Put notions of marriage out of your head for now and the next few years.
2006-08-13 08:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude youre 14. you need time. chances are you dont TRULY know what love is at 14. thats the problem with being a teenager is thinking youre in love when youre not. and no im not blaming it on you because all teens are like that.
2006-08-13 08:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by james 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? how are you going to support her? What happens if she gets pregnant? Think about it, you cannot take love to the bank and write checks on it to pay bills to live. You are much to young to be thinking about marriage. Give yourself time.
2006-08-13 08:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋