My bestfriend doesnt know i am mastubating when on phone, she has no idea.....is this considered cheating on my wife?
2006-08-13 08:32:25 · 23 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well no not if the person on the other end of the phone doesn't know.
2006-08-13 08:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't belive you are asking this. If you are thinking of your friend while doing it then it's not as much cheating as it is disrespectful to her and your wife. Where is your wife anyway when you talk to this friend? If you are talking to her in such a way that involves sexual content then yes it is by far cheating! Keep it in your pants!
2006-08-13 08:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by AB11 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably is a form of cheating. Just curious to know how she doesnpt know......does your breathing not change......what are you talking about and how can you focus on the conversation.....don't you seem a little distracted maybe.
2006-08-13 08:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let her know about it otherwise she will be very embrassed by your action. let the past be past. Forget about it and move on. and don't say anything to your wife either unless you are certain that she will forgive you.
it is not cheating it just a little fantasy go out of hand. so just be cool
2006-08-13 08:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Biblical speaking yes it is. All sexual behavior you have should be done with your wife 24/7.
2006-08-13 11:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you are masturbating because you best friend excites you. Cheating is anything you wouldn't do with your partner right beside you (if its not right you wouldn't do it with them looking) and/or anything that it wouldn't be ok with you if your partner was doing it (don't expect anyone to put up with anything that you wouldn't put up with yourself).
2006-08-13 08:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no.
as long as the best friend doesn't know and isn't participating in anyway to help you along, then it's just fantasy.
and, seeing as how everyone indulges in fantasy, it can't be considered cheating.
as long as you don't try to make one thing a reality, you're fine.
2006-08-13 08:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANY RELATIONS THAT YOU HAVE WITH OTHER WOMEN THAT EXCLUDE YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING.
WOULD YOU DO IT WITH YOUR WIFE PRESENT?
DOES THIS FRIENDSHIP INCLUDE YOUR WIFE?
OF NOT, YOU ARE CHEATING. YOU NEED TO BE COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO TELL YOUR WIFE WHAT YOU NEED FROM HER......GIVE HER A CHANCE TO GIVE IT TO YOU......SO YOU WANT TO FEEL DESIRABLE AND PURSUED? GET HER A CELL PHONE AND CALL EACH OTHER AND TALK DIRTY TO EACH OTHER......NEVER STOP DATING AND FLIRTING WITH YOUR WIFE......WHATEVER IS WRONG YOU CAN FIX IT IF YOU TRUST EACH OTHER, SO DON'T BETRAY HER AND RIUN YOUR MARRIAGE....
2006-08-13 08:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,What do you think your doing at the time? Thinking about your wife? I think not.I believe you could figure out all on your own what your wife would think!!!
2006-08-13 08:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actully no but i am sure it would hurt your wifes feeling. Isn't that what u have a wife for? y r u doing it over the telephone?
2006-08-13 08:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋