I met this guy a month ago, and we really hit it off from the start. We have spent some time together, and we seem really shy around each other but affectionate. I thought he was just being shy, but I am new to the area, so I didn't want to rush into anything either; I need time to get settled. We have been learning more and more mutual things about each other, and we both seem to get very excited and happy whenever we see each other. We have been getting more and more personal, but he has never mentioned a word about a girlfriend. I just found out that he is in a committed relationship for 1 year. Why didn't he mention it? Where does this leave me? Nothing has happened, but it certainly feels between us like the early stages of a very serious relationship.
2006-08-13 08:24:49 · 4 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, until you bring your doubts out into the open, we are all having to rely on conjecture. So ask him about her, if they have children together, if their engaged to be married, if he feels responsible for her in some way. These are all very painful questions, but you need a level playing ground. Perhaps once you clear the air and you find you can't be as close as you want, he will just want you to be around and may introduce you to some of his other friends which would be good for both of you. Friendships can last a lifetime when we are honest with each other, but we have to work at it. Just whatever happens, be careing because your music matters a lot too.
2006-08-13 09:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him!!!If he didn't tell you and y'all get together he'll probably do the same thing to you!!You wouldn't like it if another girl knew about you and still saw the guy!would you?
2006-08-13 15:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i guess he thought he would get away with it. I think he should have told you instead of leading you on. I think you should move on, you will find someone better eventually.
2006-08-13 15:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason is because he didnt want to tell you. he wanted to keep it a secret. so that it wont ruin yall relationship
2006-08-13 15:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋