2006-08-13 08:18:06 · 31 answers · asked by Nani 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If we lived closer I would show you that the fourth one would be your last one you needed
2006-08-13 09:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been married four times. This time (13 years ago) I hit the marriage jackpot, We are really happy.
Two things to think about:
1. You can marry the next person that walks through the door, and not do as badly as you have on purpose.
2. A lot of people have their emotional makeup shaped by those that they never married. Were you actually married to the Love of Your Life?
Few are.
2006-08-13 08:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by thethinker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you learned from the failed relationships? 99% of divorces are a failure on both sides, not just one. Did you both let the romance slip away? Did you take each other for granted, or drift apart, or were never on the same page to start with? In my Dad's siblings, there are 6 of them. All are married. One is still married to her first spouse. One is a newlywed. And 4 have been happily married 10 plus years to their second spouse. So I think its more about learning and growing instead of how many men you've married. Sit down and honestly try to figure out what went wrong. Own up to your parts of the relationship. Then try to not repeat those mistakes. Marriage isn't easy, and its alot of daily work. So use your past experience to help you. Go slower. Make sure he respects you. Make sure the way he lives his life is in sync with how you choose to live. If you see red flags, run. Don't assume you can change him. Maybe there's another guy out there, maybe there's not. But being happy with yourself is a big step to someone else being happy with you.
2006-08-13 08:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Velken 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean, but you are the common denominator in the three marriages. Have you thought that maybe it is something you are doing? Are you fully committed to your husband? Are you choosing jerks?
I'm sure there is hope for you! Just take some time out to think about why this is really happening and fix the problem. Then get back out there!
Hope it all works out!
2006-08-13 08:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own. I would not get married twice. Once is enough for me. There is too much weird stuff out there these days. By the way. I just had my 16 year anniversary.
2006-08-13 08:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah'. Keep trying. I imagine it's discouraging after three marriages, but that doesn't mean you should just give up on the idea of having a partner in life.
2006-08-13 08:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never give up on love--I've been married 4x myself (2x the same guy)--I have loved each guy very deeply-each relationship had it's own "personality" and reasons for not working - some problems were me, some were his, some were no bodies--I believe in love though--and I am hopefull--live, learn and love
2006-08-13 14:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by sparkling_charmed1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nani, if you fall in love not lust. the next time your an adult, you do what is in your heart, besides by now you must have learned something that was right. whats the old saying. if at first you don't succeed try try again. Your an adult and you have to live with your decision. Life is to short to waste it shaking up. Look at Elizabeth Taylor??? Your life and happiness is in your hands no one Else's.
Best wishes to you in finding your MR. Right.
2006-08-13 09:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating a guy for a long time, and dont marry him if its not right. You dont even have to marry him just grow old together, marrage doesnt solve anything.
2006-08-13 09:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married twice. I gave up. Just live with them now. Me being a man it is cheaper for me to shack up and split than to divorce.
2006-08-13 08:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but try to figure out why your marriages fail. Love is a very important part of life and is a gift to be shared.
2006-08-13 08:31:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋