help piz
2006-08-13 08:15:20 · 15 answers · asked by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
When it's the right person, you just know.
2006-08-13 08:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Master Xander 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of things go into knowing if you are ready. One of the most important things is having the right partner. It should be someone you are 100% comfortable with, who has been tested for STDs (you should see their results on paper..DON'T take any risks),is an excellent listener, and is willing to stop if you don't feel comfortable.
Also really knowing yourself and being responsible for what may or may not happen is a very important step. Make sure you are using a contraceptive, and are comfortable with it.
Also make sure you are clear about what you want and expect from your first sexual experience, and that your partner knows what your desires are too. In other words, if you only want to have sex in the context of a committed relationship, make sure your partner knows this, make sure you are on the same page about what this experience means.
Knowing your own body is also important, hopefully you know what makes you excited, and are able to please yourself. If you don't know your own body, it will make it very hard for your partner to be able to please you.
Finally you should really know yourself spiritually and emotionally. Are you ready for all the feelings that will come from your first experience? Will you be okay if it is completely different from what you expect (I may be more wonderful or terrible)? Do you feel ready to face the social implications as well? I don't know your age, but having your first sexual experience can have social implacations as well (will people call you bad things?).
I hope you find a loving sensitive parner that can lead you into the world of sexuality very gently, when you are ready. My first experience was wonderful, and I have no regrets.
2006-08-13 15:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by mopo28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have said "I Do" and signed the wedding certificate.
My theory is that if the person loves you enough he/she will wait until marriage. You know the saying "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"
JUST MY OPINION
2006-08-13 15:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Deana G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u? u know it because u want to be with the guy but if u feel scared don't due it, or don't due it just becuse u are wondering what sex is? i guess u know u are ready when u feel ur inlove w the guys he feels special 2 u. use protection i know it feels better without it but becareful.
2006-08-13 15:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by alphaprincess06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ask a bunch of stranger. But the real answer is that you're too young.
2006-08-13 15:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect if you need to ask, you probably shouldn't. Physically you're probably quite ready, but emotionally maybe not.
2006-08-13 15:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Wicked Mickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just a have that feeling when you are with the right person.
2006-08-13 15:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they pressure you to.
Monica, how about a specific verse, rather than a generalization.
2006-08-13 15:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by Electric_Napalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask tour not ready
2006-08-13 15:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in your late teens or more than your body should give you signals and than it's up to you to decide if you wnat to have sex or not
2006-08-13 15:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by papasmurf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋