u love your husband and don't want to loss him. but u also love this other man.
2006-08-13 07:35:38 · 14 answers · asked by LOOKING HARD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make it a role playing game in bed- that way if you want, you can fantasize about the other mad without cheating on your husband. I've heard that men fantasize all the time about another woman when they're with their wives or girlfriends, so why cant we do the same?
2006-08-13 07:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pooooooor woman. You do have a problem. Luckily, you do understand that a husband may get upset if you mention that you love another man too. You didn't say, but I'm assuming that the other man isn't just a soap opera star, whom you've never actually met. So, it's understandable that it's tough in a moment of passion to keep straight the name of the love that's banging you at the moment. I suggest that you pick you next extra lover on the basis of his first name. That way, if you refer to the other guy, it won't be suspicious. Now, some might get all judgmental and mention that it's somewhat tacky to have lovers when married, but that standard only applies to people with a moral sense, which obviously doesn't pertain to you. Hopefully, your husband has a common name like Bill, or Joe. It would be inconvenient if he's a Zeke, or Claude, because it would be difficult to find a stud with a suitable name.
2006-08-13 09:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you quit lying to yourself and all of us. You DON'T truly love your husband OR the other man or there wouldn't be two of them. Secondly you grow up, this isn't high school anymore, and the very fact that you make excuses for yourself and behave in a way that makes you seem 'helpless' like you accidentally fell in love with someone else proves how immature you are. You took vows, you made promises, now you grow the integrity to honor them! You have no business being around another man enough to 'love' them and thats why married people should keep themselves out of situations where its possible to develop those feelings. Third you make a decision and you stick to it, pick one and then don't look back but let the other one go so they are free to find something real.
2006-08-13 07:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do is apologize. He's probably really pissed at you right now. Second, based on your own declaration of love for two different men, I would re-exaxmine your committment to your husband. Marriage doesn't work like this. You don't get to love two men (unless one of them is deceased). Every married person deserves to have the other one completely devoted to them.
2006-08-13 07:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to do that then you should just be silent when making love.
2006-08-13 08:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by youngtendaz36104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him call out another name for you while ya'll are making love
2006-08-13 07:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you call out another man's name during sex just say its the new pet name for his penis.......my ex g/f did this and i believed her.
2006-08-13 07:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by soollddiieerr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start packing your stuff because its over. u have scarred your husband mentally for ever. he has no self esteem now.
2006-08-17 03:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you named his penis the name you cried out.
2006-08-13 07:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say Oops.
2006-08-13 07:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by redd_apples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋