what do u do when u find out after marriage you have nuttin in common?

Question

can a marriage survive happily? How?

Answer 1

that shows that one of you messed up somewhere... so now that sucks

Answer 2

Well, it shouldn't have taken you until after marriage to find out you had nothing in common. What made you marry each other? How long did you date? Was it lust? or love???? It IS possible for 2 complete opposites to be happy together, compliment each other. I think it could survive if the love is there. Marriage does not mean you have to give up what you like to do. It is ok for both people to have their own personal things that they do without each other.

Answer 3

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Article 1:

Statement of Love:
The Kiss

1.
Kiss on the hand
I adore you

2.
Kiss on the cheek
I just want to be friends

3.
Kiss on the neck
I want you

4.
Kiss on the lips
I love you

5.
Kiss on the ears
I am just playing

6.
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7.
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kiss me

8.
Playing with your hair
I can't live without you

9.
Hand on your waist
I love you to much to let you go


Article 2:
The Three Steps

1.
Girls:
If any guys gets fresh with you, slap him.

2.
Guys
If any girl slaps you, her intentions are still good.

3.
Guys & Girls
Close your eyes when kissing, it is rude to stare .



Article 3:
The Commandments

1.
Thou shall not squeeze
too hard.

2.
Thou shall not ask for a kiss,
but take one.

3.
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at every opportunity.


* Remember *
A peach is a peach
A plum is a plum,
A kiss isn't a kiss
Without some tongue.
So open up your mouth
close your eyes,
and give your tongue
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Here are a ! few reasons
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1.
They will always smell good
even if its just shampoo

2.
The way their heads always
find the right spot on our shoulder

3.
How cute they look when they sleep

4.
T! he ease in which they fit into our arms

5.
The way they kiss you and
all of a sudden everything
is right in the world

6.
How cute they are when they eat

7.
The way they take hours
to get dressed
but in the end
it makes it all worth while

8.
Because they are always
warm even when its minus 30 outside

9.
The way they look good
no matter what they wear

10.
The way they fish for compliments
even though you both know that you
think she's the most
beautiful thing on this earth

11.
How cute they are when they argue

12.
The way her hand always finds yours

13.
The way they smile

14.
The way you feel
when you see their name
on the call ID
after you just had a big fight

15.
The way she says
"lets not fight anymore"
even though you know that
an hour later....

16.
The way they kiss when
you do something nice for them

17.
The way they kiss you
when you say
"I love you"

18.
Actually ...
just the way they kiss you...

19.
The way they fall into your arms
when they cry

20.
Then the way they apologize
for crying over something that silly

21.
The way they hit you
and expect it to hurt

22.
Then the way they apologize
when it does hurt.
(even though we don't admit it)!

23.
The way they say
"I miss you"

24.
The way you miss them

25.
The way their tears
make you want to
change the world
so that it
doesn't hurt her anymore.....
Yet regardless
if you love them,
hate them,
wish they would die
or
know that you would die
without them ...
it matters not.
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whatever they were to the world
they become everything to you.
When you look them in the eyes,
traveling to
the depths of their souls
and you say a million things
without trace of a sound,
you know that your own life
is inevitable consumed
within the rhythmic beatings
of her very heart.
We love them for a million reasons,
No paper would do it justice.
It is a thing not of the mind
but of the heart.
A feeling.
Only felt.

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Answer 4

it doesn't matter that much how many things u hve in common but the fact that u guys share the love 4 1 another thats the most important and the fact that u guys understand each other is the best. yes i think the marriage can survive

Answer 5

You have to find the things that you do have in common. Something brought you two together. I'm sure you interacted or had fun prior to marriage...what did you do? Go back to there and start over.

Try new things that neither of you have done before and see if you/he likes it.

Answer 6

you might should have known that before getting married, a lot of times people get married and don't truly know the person that they are marring, i don't know if your marriage can survive happily, but good luck

Answer 7

It's a little late for that. You should have discovered this before you got married and terminated the relationship. but since you have made a commitment there must have been something there in common unless it was just sex.

Answer 8

say good bye before it gets worst. It takes a good person to admit to their mistakes. Why not to happyand maybe stay friends. Do not let the lawyers get a hold of ur situation, cause then they will make life miserable and expensive to end it.

Answer 9

You sit down and think what the hell you were thinking. Try going to a marriage counselor, and see if that helps. Otheriwse talking to your hubby and making a smart decsion would be your best bet.

Answer 10

Mistake number one, your confused, mistake number two, you have no self esteem and confidence in yourself.
Answer number one. there is no resolution to cure an inoperable man with a woman when unfavorable comes to play!.
The only thing that would make me have nothing in common with woman is when she stinks all the time and don't bathe. What;s your excuse???

Answer 11

Divorce!