My best friend and her boyfriend recently split up but are still living together. The day they broke up I slept with him because we've had feelings for eachother for a while, but I told him I wouldn't do anything until they broke up. They got back together then finally broke up for good, and so I slept with him again. Now I'm moving in there and will probably continue to sleep with him. No one knows at all that we're doing this because we don't want to wreck the relationship with my best friend. I have no intrest in creating a relationship with the guy however, but it's really nice to sleep with him. There would be no way of either of us telling her that we've been doing this.
2006-08-13 07:03:03 · 26 answers · asked by kristin r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We were going to hook up back in the day but I live 60 miles away from them. Him and I are really good friends too.
2006-08-13 07:41:52 · update #1
i don't know that it's a bad idea but you should definitely talk to your friend about this...and if you're not all that interested in having a relationship with the guy and just want to use him as a sex toy for a while then he's not worth jeopardizing your relationship with your friend...so which is more important to you...your friend or getting some sex for a while with a meaningless guy...
2006-08-13 07:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by chelley 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are asking for trouble.
Why would you even call her your friend and then have sex with her ex?
She must be hard up for friends.
I think you are a creep and I wish women like you would have done to them what they do to other women.
No, they are not together anymore but there are just some things that we do not do and one of them is sleeping with our best friends ex's. YUCK!!
Don't kid yourself. She will find out eventually if she does not already know. I think she probably does and is just waiting to see how far you will take this.
2006-08-13 07:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sleeping with and having sex with are two different things. If you are having sex, that could be a disaster waiting to happen. Do you like him more than her or what? NO man is worth the loss of a best friend. You have to suffer the consequences therefore you need to make the right decision.
2006-08-13 07:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! Secrets have a way of getting out, if you fall out with him he may even tell her. If you don't care then she can't be a very good 'best friend'. In which case what are you worrying about?
2006-08-13 07:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rich 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Young lady you are asking for a war.How can you treat your friend like that?You are not a true friend.Its sad you even say you are a friend because a true friend would have never have slept with him.
2006-08-13 07:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People have a way of finding out things. Your so called best friend may be suspicious of you already. Are you willing to lose her friendship for this guy????
2006-08-13 07:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What if she is still have feelings for him? Put yourself in her position, will you like your friends to be sleeping with your ex and then find out. How will you feel?
Bad, very bad!! :0<
2006-08-13 07:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by kettycat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you are WRONG, WRONG, WRONG..With "friends" like you--who needs enemies???..But, one thing is for sure--'what goes around, comes around'--so in a few years when your cute new best friend starts sleeping with your ex--dont come crying to us...and, hun--you are not her "Best Friend"--you are a 'Back Stabbing Enemy'.
2006-08-13 07:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are a slut all i got to say. I am not trying to be mean but if your her real best friend you will stop and tell her the truth if not your a bad best friend and a slut
2006-08-13 09:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god! just don't go around your "best friend" anymore cuz you're not a true friend. unless, of course, you tell her the truth. i believe that you're mature and take the consequences of your actions. moreover, why is that guy sleeping with you, knowing that you are his ex's best friend? he doesn't care! take care.
2006-08-13 07:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by ilovefrappes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋