I met this woman at work who just got married. She told me she is the boss in her marriage, and is looking for a lover on the side.
Yeesh! Do some guys actually like having their wives screw other men? Is it a rewarding lifestyle?
2006-08-13 06:56:26 · 42 answers · asked by Crazy Eagle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some guys get off on this deal. He is (borderline?) submissive and if not bi then bi-curious. She is usually the dominant figure of the two and likes to degrade him. I have had men GIVE me permission indirectly and very directly to take their wives. But usually she does something stupid like trying to get me to call him while she is going down on me and tell him how good she is (and degradation isn't something I do), or want him to photograph, film or join in. One went straight home and had him lick her clean. Too complicated for this country boy. Good advise is if she is married...leave her alone. The complications could be worse than the nookie is good
2006-08-13 07:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuckold Lifestyle
2016-09-30 23:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by zeitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuckold Life Style
2016-12-29 14:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds really weird, are you sure is not a transvestite?
Why is so important to say who is the boss in a marriage if women for centuries have been doing softly what they wanted but convincing their husband that it was always their idea...so simple as to let him decide what food does he want for dinner but keep control over other more important things in life.
Why is she searching for a lover right now, if that is her habit? Was she faithful before getting married but now she considers it was enough? Revenge?
Is she somebody working close to you that might be interested in screwing you just to get your position?
It sounds weird, but everything is possible.
As another girl said, is always refreshing to listen that a man also can say NO to such an open invitation. In this case congratulations, you probably saved your life with a simple negative. Promiscuous people can live together, but usually do not use condoms and keep on partying with drugs, sex in groups, etc.
For concluding, you had an invitation to get at least a couple of sexual transmitted diseases that I recommend you to keep on avoiding. Condoms helps a lot, but not 100%.
Besides, how do you know that is not a trap, or that she is not doing the same with the rest of your colleagues?
Please, do not get offended, a single reason could be that you are irresistible, but then all the comments were superfluous.
Normal men certainly do not like to share their partner with another men. You are not old fashion, just a healthy normal men.
2006-08-21 02:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuckold lifestyle . mean that the man in the current relationship is unable to please her partner. so the partner need to find a man that can makeup for is short comings . if the lady is happy with her relationship but dose not wont do devoured and just wont's a man toy to play with .there are men that love there wife so much that they will do anything to make them happy even let them have a norther man..i been told that it is not a rewarding lifestyle and most of the men end up broken hearted..
2006-08-21 02:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me that's not a real marriage...that's a loose communion between two #@$% buddies. I agree that if you are wanting to be a swinger, you shouldn't marry. Regardless of how "open" you may think things are, eventually jealousy and hurt feelings will probably get between what could have been a great monogamous relationship. I'm not saying that under perfect circumstances it couldn't work, I'm sure that it could...I'm just saying that it probably most often doesn't work.
2006-08-20 12:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so nice to know there are some men out there that don't want that.
It doesn't work. Everyone says they have an open marriage but there is always jealousy and hurt feelings. Marriage is not meant to be that way. People like that should stay single otherwise what is the difference anyway?
I hope you don't get involved.
2006-08-17 10:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by snowhite 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is just not acceptable ... no matter who is the dominate one!
This person you speak upon is very dangerous and a health hazard if I may say so!
If she wants the swinger life style and her mate accepts it that is one thing, but the person who is the lover should be cautious just the same. Love triangles are never the answer!
2006-08-20 06:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sterling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends was approached by a couple at a disco and was invited to sleep with the wife because it's her birthday and her husband said she could have anything or anyone she wanted. So he followed them to their house and slept with the wife while the husband waited outside the room. So to answer your question, yes, there are men who don't mind their wives sleeping with other men, even total strangers.
2006-08-20 20:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure some guys do get turned on, watching their wife with another man, or just the mere thought of it. If both people like the lifestyle, I'm sure they do enjoy it. I personally think it's sick and twisted.
2006-08-20 10:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by SpittinThaReal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋