Hi. i broked up with my boyfriend before one mounth and I was very sad but not for long.
Now i can't find a boyfriend becouse i am afraid that he will be like my ex.
that he will humilliate me and stuff like that.
how to get to know to some boy but to awoid my fear
2006-08-13 06:32:43 · 22 answers · asked by Hot_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
spend time on your own learn to be confident in yourself and understand that u dont need a man. u will meet someone else in time who appreciates u for u .
2006-08-13 06:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard to find a b/f when the time is right it will happen. You can not let fear run your life if you do you Will always be alone. Yes unfortunately there are many men out there like your ex who treat women like dirt but not all are. Don't ever settle for second best you deserve so much better than that. Chances are when you least except it you will meet the man that you will mean the world to and he will treat you like an equal and not the rug under his feet
2006-08-13 06:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Second if you see that a guy is trying to hurt you dump him on the spot. Third don't let fear keep you from trying again because there will be a nice guy out there for you that will treat you kindly. Good luck.
2006-08-13 06:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel afraid after a break up. When you go out with the new guy you can just explain how you feel. Take baby steps in the relationship. You will see after a while that fear will diminish.
2006-08-13 06:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't need to find a boyfriend, you need to wait and let nature take it's course. If a guy is interested then he will come to you. Not all guys are alike. just let the guy know up front what you expect and that you wont lower your standards for anyone. stick with that and he will respect you if he truly cares.
2006-08-13 06:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are the same. If you decide that one boy seems like the other, it's not true. Some things just happen, and you have to let them. See other guys and I hope you get better soon. Best wishes.
2006-08-13 06:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel as you do. It will get better. Take your time getting to know a new person. Don't rush out and find a replacement. He will show up when you are ready. Don't be too eager. You need to get your "picker" adjusted so you can spot the idiots coming.
2006-08-13 06:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why are you looking? I've found the best relationships come when you aren't looking. Live your life, be you. If someone is attracted to you - don't rush it! Be friends and let it grow. If it's not what you want, then you can break it off. It's your life, don't let some guy define it for you :)
2006-08-13 06:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by gunrunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u shud go out more with guys. not stop urself from njoyin life. go out with a guy that u might like but dont get too emotionally attached with him immediately. take it slow. find out more about him - like see if he has the same probs like ur old bf. see no one is perfect. u cant get a perfect guy . so keep tryin. there are many guys out there. so go ahead and explore life. dont pull urself back coz of one bad thing. u get to the best thing after a few bad things. so relax. njoy. life waits for no one. dont waste it .
2006-08-13 06:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by shelldugout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this fear.Your fears effect your attitude and your attitude has reaction.If you are afraid all the time to miss that guy than it will be definitely shown in your behavior and for most of the people this kind of attitude is repelling.
2006-08-13 06:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by uncoolmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be afraid? You may get hurt again but then again he may be the one. If you are afraid to take a chance based on previous relationships then you will end up growing old alone
2006-08-13 06:36:37 · answer #11 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋