Where you just want to be with your boyfriend or girlfriend all the time. You want to move out of your house and live with him or her? You get sad when both of you don't talk. You wish you were hanging out with him everyday?
If so, how do you stop that feeling?
2006-08-13 06:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by dewdropinn 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Imagine them with someone else. Then call them...
2006-08-13 06:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dedicate and commit yourself to finding other outlets in your life for your intense passion, such as school, career, art, etc. Life is uncertain. Relationships are uncertain. Usually it is certain that this passion you feel now will dissipate some with time. Worst, it may end before it has dissipated and you will need other things in your life to turn to. Work on having some things in your life that you have more control over outcomes with. Your lessened "need" for your romantic interest will make you more attractive to him or who ever. Most of all, avoid sexual involvements until you are old enough to make a healthy choice which may include marriage, so when the intensity of sexual involvements takes you over, your partner will be nearby. I agree that there is no stopping these feelings. It's kind of like when you think you can handle a heroine addiction, then go on ahead and become involved in sexual/romantic relationships. Some studies have reported that the chemicals released in the human brain when in love are equivalent to those released by heroine use. Actually, to me, heroine would be easier to manage, (never used it though so I really don't know) but I say that because, you have to go out and find and buy heroine, and the chemicals of "love" are always right there, inside you.
2006-08-13 13:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by qwestionz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we all have @ one time or another. Try focusing on other things and know that it's very normal. Moving in with someone is a big step and I think you should give it time. Love is something that matures and both parties need to know each other well because one can never go back just forward with good decision making. Enjoy the time you spend together but spend time with other friends and family. If it is meant to be hopefully one day you will be married and living together as man and wife.
2006-08-13 13:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I would have married someone totally wrong for me if I hadn't lived with them first. What you're feeling is infatuation. Love is when you have all of those feelings, but you have enough sense to not spend every waking moment with that person, and continue to have your own life.
2006-08-13 13:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by JS820 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had that feeling for some guy. Living with someone other than your husband /family is a sin, plus you have a better chance of breaking up, so I suggest not moving in with him...
2006-08-13 13:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i remember once, on this one day, i felt sick because i was away from this person. i actually felt ill and drowsy and stuff. it was pretty bad. i was only in grade seven and i didnt know for sure if the guy liked me (he does). but it was so wierd. it was like this feeling in the pit of my stomach, i really wanted to be with this person!!!
dont stop it. call him up. talk to him. set up a date. be with him and enjoy every minute
2006-08-13 13:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviosuly are very young. the olrder you get the less you are like that. its all new stuff to you . so enjoy it while it lasts. .. just liek people believe in soul mates. doesnt happen.. you are perfectly capable of loving anyone. there is not just ONE person for everyone. thats life.
2006-08-13 14:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by JT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called love
2006-08-13 13:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by Paul B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are inlove. you can stop it when the times come,...and i think its good you know if he/she feels the same way too,....otherwise you will end up being hurt.
2006-08-13 13:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly stops by itself, and you ending up hating his/her guts. Trust me on this one, and don't make any stupid decisions.
-Dio
2006-08-13 13:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by diogenese19348 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋