i think i have an abnormally high sex drive. if i don't masturbate or have sex at least three times a day i become very aggressive and aroused easily. i have tried abstaining but after a week i will be a walking erection, literally. i will have an extremely hard erection that will not subside for hours. i would like to give up masturbation entirely as i feel it is harmful. i would appreciate any suggestions/solutions. i don't believe the masturbation is healthy spin we are fed. i see it is causing problems for me.
2006-08-13 06:17:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i'm....errrr......25yrs old btw
2006-08-13 06:24:11 · update #1
Yes, it is. And, do you know, well probably not 'cuz men don't usually talk about that stuff, but that if you continue with your excessive masturbation, that no one else, and nothing else can get you off? 'Tis true, I know of two men personally with this problem. One, is an old friend of mine, we talk about everything, and the other is my best friends EX boyfriend. (Note the emphasis on EX?) See your Dr., sweetie, and it may be embarrassing for YOU, but, do it. They are professionals, and will know what to do. Do you think women go thru life without embarrassing experiences in the Dr.'s office? Wrong! But we do it to resolve problems. Hope this helps.
2006-08-13 06:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by vspaulo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you have a drawer full of sex toys and you are very accomodating to his fetishes may be why he masturbates a lot. If a man mastrubates to climax, he is able to last longer when he has sex with his girl. He might just be trying his best to be great in bed for you. That being said, if his porn watching is making you uncomfortable, tell him! The other thing that makes for great sex is complete openess. And to answer your question about what guys in general do...I can only tell you that I jerk off about once a day. Twice if I'm alone on my day off. LOL
2016-03-16 21:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 cor. 7 8-9...
6 Now to the unmarried and to widows, I say: it is a good thing for them to remain as they are, as I do,
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but if they cannot exercise self-control they should marry, for it is better to marry than to be on fire. ......The Bible does not want you to masturbate,..it has become an obbsession with you, and an unhealthy one...much like a ritual. The Bible tells us it is better to get married than to be lusty, and does not want us to masturbate. Good healthy sex is approved of, as God created it to be beautiful between a man and a woman...but when we go against what He originally planned for us, the results can be disasterous...and it is going to get out of hand for you, no pun intended
2006-08-13 06:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I wish you were mine. I say, if it makes you feel good, do it! It isnt a bad thing to do it... even if it is 5 times a day. I mean, you dont want to be aggressive. So you should do whatever helps you. You probably have too much testosterone in your body.
2006-08-13 06:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Nothing wrong with masturbation. That's just a myth that people believed in the Victorian Era that people are just stuck with today.
2006-08-13 06:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously,yes.
i think u can talk to a mental Dr,it doesn't means u have got a mental disease but i think he will give u some suggestions,after all,too much jerk off is not good to ur nephridium,and u also can try to relax at the time u r erection hard.it works to me.besides ,if u do want to give up exessive mastuebation,don't think that u can't ,that will prevent u .
anyway ,goodluck
2006-08-13 14:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you masturbate it is fine. If you want to stop in stages masturbate four times a day for a week then three times a day for a week for a week then two times a day for a week then once a day then you can stop and do it when you want
2006-08-13 06:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jon Stewart for President 2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably above average but unless you are totally obsessed with it or ignorning other things in your life, I wouldn't worry too much about it. For most guys of your age once or twice is enough...but guys vary in their sexual desire. I'd say just keep jerkin' and enjoy it myself!
2006-08-13 06:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the time your 21 or so, your sperm will become sterile and then u can have sex with girls without using condoms and not worry about getting them pregnet. U will however have to worry about STDs
2006-08-13 06:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by jamcit can am connexion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should switch hands occasionally to promote even muscle development.
2006-08-13 12:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by preacher55 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋