2006-08-13 06:12:41 · 17 answers · asked by genre s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It is perfectly normal for a heterosexual to sometimes feel attracted to the same sex. The Mental Health Association has actually stated that it is abnormal NOT to have those thoughts sometimes.
With that said, since you are male, it all depends on if it is just sexual thoughts or more. Being gay is not about sex. It is about your inner feelings of love and desire towards a person of the same sex.
A lot of different sexual things turn different ppl on. I have known women who liked to watch gay male pornography. To me that seems strange but each to their own I guess. Does that mean they liked gay men sexually... no.
Just think about how you feel about men on a deeper level.. not sexually. That will help you find your answer.
2006-08-13 06:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok here comes felix to the rescue again.
There's something that most of us don't get. Being a homosexual isn't liking to have sex with guys. It means that we can fall in love and have feelings for other men. Just because you want to have sex with a guy doesn't mean that you are gay.
Let me give you a better example.
I'm gay. I can have sex with women. In fact i get turned on by certain girls. HOWEVER....i can NEVER be in a relationship with a girl because i just don't have feeling for girls. I have feelings for guys, therefore, i am gay.
You, on the other hand, just have sexual thoughts about guys.
If you start having feeligs for a guy friend or any guy at all, then we're talking about being gay, but having homoerotic thoughts doesn't mean you're gay, it just means you're curious and that's totally normal. If you are still confused and/or need advice or help, just send me a message and/or instant message me. My SN is my user name for Yahoo Answers!.
2006-08-13 13:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you identify as gay, or do you have any feelings one way or the other yet? Nothing wrong at all with sex feelings
2006-08-13 13:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u are attracted to male more than female then obviously you are gay, but there is nothing wrong with being homosexual. so dont feel bad and find your self another gay guy and live happily ever after. :)
2006-08-13 13:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian. if youre more attached to males than females then you may be gay. it's not a big deal though. dont let anyone tell you thats it "unnatural" or "sinful." these people are just ignorant, close-minded, and stupid.
2006-08-13 13:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best indicator for an adult is their sexual fantasies when masturbating. If your fantasies are about men, then you are most certainly gay. If they are mixed (men and women) maybe you are bi, though that's a bit more difficult to determine. If your fantasies center exclusively on women, then you are straight.
2006-08-13 14:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you have feelings for male/male then your gay, enjoy.
2006-08-13 15:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you, you are just gay. If you want to have sex with girls you are straight, otherwise you're bi. good luck.
2006-08-13 13:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Guam nut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thereb is nothing wrong with you! Are you gay? You tell us, are you gay or bi? Do you still have the desire to be with women as well?
2006-08-13 13:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by K. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being gay. :P
2006-08-13 13:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋