I dont know what to do to keep my mind off it. It seems like nomatter what i am always thinking about it. The subject sort of facinates me, and i want to know everything there is to know about it. I think its bad to be thinking about it 24/7 though. Its sort of annoying cause i get strange feelings and sometimes they just WONT GO AWAY! I feel like some sort of perv. HELP!
2006-08-13 05:56:29 · 16 answers · asked by Life's a bitch and then you 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
That's natural for a adolecent of any gender. The best thing to do is not to try to block out the thoughts (completly impossible) but to control them. Maybe treat some of the questions you have in an academic manner and do some research Whatever you do, don't just go out and act on your thoughts, it could ruin your life,
2006-08-13 06:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way when I was that age, its nothing bad. Your just facinated about it. What I did, was get books out about it, go to informational websites, and just looked up everything about it. It wasnt that I was a perv, I had never had sex and wanted to know about it. You can try learning how to pleasure yourself, maybe that would take some of the cravings away. Good Luck.
2016-03-27 00:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to have sex. Talk to your parents about it if you can't talk to them about it...go to the library and read about it. I think masturbation, touching yourself to give you pleasure is the answer as far as your curiosity in having or wanting sex. Don't pursue a sexual encounter or relationship right now. Especially if you dont' have all the answers. You could end up with a sexually transmitted disease or a baby.
2006-08-13 06:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dominika 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's normal 4 ur age. Ur just curious. Try 2 read a book that doesn't talk about sex. U can learn many new things.
2006-08-13 05:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its fine and youre not a perv, youre at an age where all these hormones are running rampant throughout your body. All the other girls are having the same thoughts, they just hide it better.
2006-08-13 06:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have too much time on your hands and are bored. Get involved, get a hobby, learn new things, study, take extra courses, take out a book and read, do a project whether it be art or making a quilt or get yourself a pet, get involved in church organizations and helping out...anything so you won't be bored.
2006-08-13 06:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you're normal! Maybe you're someone who's maturing faster then others; I wouldn't do anything crazy like start "making it" with a bunch of guys, but I think it's OK to "release" some of that anxiety, privately in your room!
2006-08-13 06:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby
Go for a walk/run/jog
Do sports
Clean the house (your parents will be thrilled)
Get a part-time job
Learn to do something challenging
Find other things to interest you besides sex
2006-08-13 06:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep yourself busy with things you like such as sports, or talking to your female friends, clubs at school, or whatever you do.
Prayer helps to and having friends who feel the same way. They can help by keeping accountability with you.
2006-08-13 05:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by King Ted 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me too. I think about it a lot. I guess it's normal for teenagers because of all the raging hormones.
2006-08-13 07:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋