because you are so awful and an embarrassment to the team, would that be fun for you??
Why would you want to play, knowing that you are only a handicap to the team?
2006-08-13 04:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by whuvahgut? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
ive always been a competitive athlete, im having a hard time with this chick who sucks so bad, and makes us lose, she thinks its fun.. ..uh!
i really dont understand how its fun for her??
2006-08-13 04:46:55 · update #1
NO ONE IS ANSWERING THE QUESTION...... I WANT TO KNOW IF IT IS HONESTLY FUN FOR HER TO PLAY???
2006-08-13 04:51:50 · update #2
im not asking for advice my actions, or what your defition of "team" is, I am asking........
is it actually fun for her. come on people...please answer the question!
2006-08-13 05:01:18 · update #3
talk to the coach. if the coach cant see how she is screwing the team over... time to join a different team. if the whole team is giving her a hard time, maybe you could all conspire to get her to quit the team.
2006-08-13 07:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by unbridledglory 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, she is not taking your team too seriously. If your team is a very competitive one (i.e. it's more about winning and competing than just having fun), kick her off the team and tell her that she should join a team that is a little less serious--one she can just have more fun with.
Whuvagut: How the hell are WE supposed to know what she is FEELING? We're not psychick! Why don't you ask her and stop moaning?
2006-08-13 04:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is about the team... You win as a team and you lose as a team. She may actually be enjoying herself and having fun.
I think, in a constructive sort of way, that you can attempt to help her improve her game. She will get better and make your team better in the process...
2006-08-13 04:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Todd Maz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to train your mindset - then re-evaluate why you play in such a team game.
Maybe you are in the wrong role/position or that some people do not use you effectively.
The idea of 'team' is that all memebers gel together so if you cannot gel, try something else.
2006-08-13 04:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find something she can do, if it's basketball maybe intentional fouls, I can't imagine that there is a person that can't do one thing in each sport, even if you have to use her for a distraction.
2006-08-13 04:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by alis_n_1derland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you win or lose. What difference does it really make. Other than you can say "IN YOUR FACE" and do the safety dance.
2006-08-13 04:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nerdly Stud 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i kno wat it was like 3 years ago i was horrible but practice makes perfect
2006-08-13 04:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋