2006-08-13 04:34:09 · 21 answers · asked by Judith D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your just too hot!!!
2006-08-13 05:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mrs Lets Keep It In The Family, this is normal for those who wish to ruin other peoples lives. Not only will you cause hatred between 2 loving brothers but most will see you as a home wrecker. Thus sometimes being a mature adult requires us to control our impulses and do what is right. I highly recommend you never put yourself in situation where you are alone with him. These feelings will pass in time as most of us are impulse creatures anyways.
2006-08-13 04:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not NORMAL...but it isn't uncommon. I guess you are just attracted to some features in your brother in law that your husband may not have. But you picked your husband to marry for a reason. It is dangerous territory to wander into, and you don't want to be looked at as a fluzy either so don't go there.
You are mistaking your brother in laws affection towards you. You can 'love' your brother in law as a brother, but you should not dare let your feelings run amuck like that. Your husband would be devestated and your brother in law would hate you for having hurt his brother by betraying him like that.
There may be qualities your brother in law has that appeal to you, that you maybe even wish your husband had, but you should just feel grateful that you have such a good extended family and not to anything to ruin that. No one is "perfect" and even if you eventually fall out of love with your husband you have no right to go after his brother and ruin a family like that. That is my opinion.
I think it's just sexual immaturity you are experiencing or perhaps you are starting to see some flaws in your husband and think the grass is greener elsewhere....but extended families have to exercise respect and propriety in this area.
2006-08-13 04:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by EVE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
emotions - likely so. moves - no longer a lot. That stated, as long as you aren't any further making children with your sibling, that is particularly none of my company. you aren't any further harming me or anybody else (presuming all activities are consenting adults). If both of you is a minor, it is a thoroughly diverse project both psychologically and legally talking, and possibly some thing to be prevented. And even if you believe it, it DOES take position; in case you don't love it, then do not do it, yet at the same time as it consists of consenting adults, it is as a lot as THEM.
2016-11-30 00:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're under major temptation from very bad entity. You must aggresively deny such thoughts and establish your character as a decent married woman and not a complete slut as you would be known for the rest of your life if you follow the temptations. Do Not discuss this with your husband. You'll bring it into the tangible realm and face awful consequences. Never acknowledge such things just know that there is a devil and he hates us and resist him to gain power against him. I know this sounds dogmatic but truth is truth. Good luck
2006-08-13 07:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm don't think that is a territory that you should go to. You need to erase that out of your brain. My sister is married to a man who is goodlooking, kind hearted, and every womens dream. Would I want to have sex with him NO!!!! That is her man let her be happy and be happy for her. Maybe your just not happy with your hubby and think your brother in law is better. You do not live with them so you have no idea what flaws and quirks he has.
2006-08-13 04:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is relatively. Perhaps you have feelings for the type of man your brother in law is. Perhaps you want to dissect what it is that attracts you to him. Perhaps you can discuss these features that attract you to a man with your husband. And allow your relationship with your husband to grow.
2006-08-13 05:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual, but it's also very dangerous; you need to discuss this with your husband and possibly the brother later on, to work out those feelings and resolve the issue before your marriage suffers for it.
For all you know, your husband might let you swap partners if he can do the same! Find out!
2006-08-13 04:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really normal, but not wickedly wierd, either. But it is a dangerous thing. How important is your marriage? How important is your self-worth? How important is it your husband trust you? How will Christmas and Thanksgiving feel being in the room with both men?
Get serious.
2006-08-13 04:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, no. It is not normal. You should have those feelings for your husband not his brother. Did you marry the wrong one? LOL
2006-08-13 04:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No u married the man of your dreamz do u think u married the wrong man? How do u feel when he iz in the same room as u and your huzban?
2006-08-13 04:37:39 · answer #11 · answered by Poohbear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋