2006-08-13 04:30:37 · 19 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
NO ONE WANTS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR HAPPINESS. IT'S NOT THEIR JOB ANYWAY. IT MAKES YOU NEEDY AND DESPERATE.
BUILD YOURSELF UP WITH MASTERING A SKILL, VOLUNTEERING YOUR TIME AND EFFORT TO THOSE IN NEED, AND GET HAPPY WITH YOURSELF.
OTHERS WILL GRAVITATE TOWARDS YOU IF YOU HAVE HAPPINESS TO SHARE WITH THEM, AND BE REPELLED BY YOUR NEED TO BE MADE HAPPY.....
YOU ARE CONFUSING LOVE WITH INFATUATION.....LOVE IS MUTUAL, CONFIDENT, SECURE, CERTAIN, AND WITHOUT QUESTION....INFATUATION CAN BE ONE-SIDED.
YOU CAN'T DUMP YOUR FEELINGS ON SOMEONE AND EXPECT THEM TO BE RETURNED.....NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
2006-08-13 06:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 2⤊ 6⤋
In love, its more important giving love than asking for love, you are doing your part, thats the most happiest thing in life, keep smiling, life takes its own course :)
2006-08-13 11:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by piratesinc 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Life at times is very harsh. Love also is quite cruel. In times of agony we must find a way to make the most of it. Even though you're hurting try to find a way back.
2006-08-13 11:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Julia♥ 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
That's life... Sometimes it's hard because there's always a prettier or more handsome person (not that you're a beast or anything like that) but I sincerely believe that true love (whatever the hell that is) will only last if it's about intrinsic qualities.
2006-08-13 11:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by GoateeBoy 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
he just doesn't it could be any reason. u luv him for what s/he is not because u r getting something back...if u really want to be with him, just let him know that, make a straight move , if he accepts then u hav a chance to know how he feels and to get it going, if he refuses u hav to completely let go (ofcourse u will still luv him) but respect his feeling, respect him because u should respect how u feel towards him (i hope u understand what i say)
2006-08-13 11:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
it is the law of universe, like mind attracts each other so he loves you back. Hope I am answering the right question
2006-08-13 11:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Yeahbabe 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
it happens to all of us at least once. get over it an move to the next thing. There will be more than one anyways, its so predictable. They are not worth your time worrying if the feelings are not mutual. It may be tough, but you will get over it and find better.
2006-08-13 11:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
You cant have everything you want. That's a sad fact of life. Somebody else is meant for you. You have to be patient.
2006-08-13 11:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Have you done something that you're aware of? You might want to make amends.
Or cook something really special -- cook it with love. He just might love you for that. Well, that's how my wife got me.
2006-08-13 11:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
He might not love you.You can love whoever you want but you can't force him to love you.By the way, did you know each other well?
2006-08-13 11:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ethio /Habeshaw/ 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋