Hi...my question is not so much about forgetting someone you loved as it is about how it is possible you still think about this person even though you know it obviously wasn't meant to be. It's been 2 years and I can't let go of certain memories. Moreover, it is clear to me I may never be able to put them behind and it makes me all shattered inside.
2006-08-13 04:26:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is hard to get over a bad experience. You must maintain composure and refrain from sex right now, from your desire. Your an easy score right now because your down and out and can get whooed by many who pick up on your loneliness.
Stay together and eventually everything will work out for you in the long run where you can date again and find someone that will love you for who you are. You are beautiful and just because he doesn't want you doesn't mean someone else wont' His expectations were to high that is not your fault. Stay away from denial. Eat your meals everyday and keep your self busy doing things and get out with friends, but don't sit at home and think about something that is long gone and over. You will never forget, but it won't bother you like it does now, down the road, because Prince charming will come into your life and be the one you have always wanted and what your looking for in a Man. Patience is virtue.!
2006-08-16 04:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found learning to remember without hurt, anger or resentment comes when I am willing to take a long hard look at the reality of how the relationship wasn't working. It helps me let go and move on.
2006-08-13 11:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start going out and have fun surround urself with friends and try as hard as it may be to direct your thought on other things when ever possible make new memeories of simular past memeories ( like if you saw fireworks with your ex then go with someone else or a group of friends and make a new memory of fireworks so then when you see fireworks again you think of the new memory instead of the one with your ex) i hope that made sense its been working for me
2006-08-13 11:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by broken harted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to let go of things that have really touched our lives. You have to go on tho. You live, love and learn. When you fall, you pick yourself up, dust your self off, and go on. I know what you mean, sometimes I sit and dwell on things. But they are things out of our control. You owe it to yourself to move on and do the best that you can do. Life is short, so make yourself happy. People are put in our lives for times that we have no control over. It can be too soon for us for them not to be there anymore but that is when you have to know its time to move on. I am truly sorry for you. I hope you find what you need.
2006-08-13 11:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it is not neccessary to "get over" someone or forget about someone. It is however neccessary to move on.
If it's never mean for you two, then learn to live with it. Wish him/her well and get on with your live.
Get out and meet more people, that will definitely helps. There are plenty of good one waiting for someone like you.
2006-08-13 11:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not easy but time is a healer eventually things will get easyer to cope with. Try staying busy all the time. Go out and do the stuff you enjoy doing.... Hope this helps........
2006-08-13 11:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong it takes time to heal...... what you are feeling is normal as for the memories don't fight them don't try to get rid of them just learn to live again accept the past there's nothing you can do to change the past, you have to accept it and move forward. good luck
2006-08-13 11:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not supose to for get good menmories that is why they are stored in your mine but donot let them get in the way of a good relationship
2006-08-13 11:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought this question was already asked
2006-08-13 11:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start seeing someone else
2006-08-13 11:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋