I refused, (its not why we split....that was another story) The question being she said I should have because I belonged to har sexually. I said it was claptrap. Is this so?
2006-08-13 04:15:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
She's your X leave it at that. Dont do what she says you should do. Find another person, if you havent already. The X wants you to have pain.
Ask her to have hers pierced, that way, you can put a pad lock on it, and keep the keys. This way if she wants to play games with you, you can reverse it on her. Then you'll know shes not out messing around on ya if the 2 of yous are bed buddies.
2006-08-13 04:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a nice women, you could do better and 99% of men would not do it either..She must be nuts to think you would agree. Also, by her saying that you belonged to her sexually, she is already trying to control your life and it will only get worse--dump her and you will be glad you did. Out of curiosity, Is she pierced there? I'm 35 but didn't marry until 30. I've been through it all, dating several men from clubs, parties, etc..I had a crush on a few jerks and think back to those times and say to myself, "what the hell was I thinking?", I really needed to grow up. I now have a loving husband who has a strong sense of value and really cares about me and vice versa. Find yourself a women that you can feel secure with and who will love you unconditionally...you will be thankful in the future.
Diane
2006-08-13 11:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Diane S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off shes your Ex...so who really cares. Second If you don't want that done its your body and you should do what you wish to do with it. I have a friend that had his done, he really enjoyed it for sexual purposes and so did my other good friend, (his girlfriend) the down side of it is that he said that it would get caught on things if he wasn't care full....He said that it didn't hurt as bad as he thought it would when he got it pierced because you don't have as much feeling in your penis when it isn't erected. but cleaning it was a different story. It hurt more to clean it then to get the piercing. And he had to clean it because ...well who wants their manhood to be infected...the decision is up to you but its your body and she is your ex....so Good luck to ya!
2006-08-13 11:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jessika J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't have done it and you didn't belong to her sexually. You were choosing to be exclusive sexually with her there is a difference. It was extremely immature and controlling for her to think she could make alterations to your body because she thought you belonged to her.
Aren't you glad you didn't do it now?
2006-08-13 11:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by kimnwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Was she a bit strange in the head?
And what do you want pierced? Errr? I must be missing something!
2006-08-13 11:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by angelina.rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the bible a piercing was a sign of slavery. By getting it done you would be putting yourself into slavery under your ex - bad idea!!!!
2006-08-13 11:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-one belongs to anybody. It's your body you get done what you want not what someone else wants you too.
You could always suggest that she goes first?
2006-08-13 11:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Raych C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should 'belong' to anyone or be owned by anyone. I think she is very selfish and you're right not to get it done. It's your choice and no-one elses. Would hurt like hell too!........
2006-08-13 11:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont 'belong' to anyone, sexually or otherwise.
I agree with you. if you dont want your wotsit pierced, you shouldnt have to fell pressured to do it.
2006-08-13 11:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the butcher with meat clever
2006-08-14 12:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋