Im very much in love with my boyfreind, but i get paranoid sometimes that im not, and the only way to stop this is too try and identify what feelings people have when they truly love someone.
confusing... i know, if i can identify with other peoples feelings then it must be true love, and i can stop having these worry episodes.
2006-08-13 04:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by anonymousjo 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are in love when your partner can skip the shower for a whole week and you find the natural smell of him the nicest smell in the world, nicer than when he is clean!! When you hug it is like a meditation, it clears your mind of everything and you feel like you could be floating in the womb again.
It sounds like your confidence might be the issue here, on the days that you get paranoid do you notice a pattern. Does the paranoia occur when you don't feel good and love yourself? If you love yourself, then you should have no problem loving others.
2006-08-14 02:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by stephie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The condition of being 'in love' can be thought of as an ill-defined collection of physiological and emotional sensations, uniquely experienced but identified by society and culture. You don't need labels for your feelings so much as you need to decide whether they mean you enjoy your man's company, whether you're happy when you're with him, whether you can imagine a long-term future together: whether you are going to decide to 'love' him, with all that might entail. Romantic feelings, at the end of the day, are only a part of that.
2006-08-13 11:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Clodia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent all my life trying to know that, & now I think I hav the answer, I'm granting u what i learned in 30 years, handle with care:) 1- physically :when u luv him and ur sad for not having him, a an annoying stream of electric-like feeling circles at the top of ur stomache, not inside it, but out . at moments u will have the same stream running like a flash through u and make the hair on ur arms stand up (this happens at moments when u feel lov, it's not a continuous feeling very rare and it can make ur eyes wet)
u will develop spiritual connexion with him, again very rarely u will dream of him if he is away and distressed, u will hav a strong inclination if something bad is happening with him, but don't look for these signs becoz u will confuse ur mind's perception if u do. if u luv him u can't bare the idea of loosing him, he has to exist even if with someone else, he has to exist in ur life (even if he's married and ur married to other people)but i guess these r developed stages. at the begining : u will be able to make a joke immediately after u orgazm, u will like touching his hands kneck skin as u get aroused from any part of him not the hot spots only, u will love to smell him all the time, u will be able to show him ur true self (we luv people who allow us to be and accept us) u will react to him as u do to urself,if u r tough on urself u treat him the same sometimes u might even hate him ,that is not a sign for not loving a person. love is a feeling u don't keep 24 hours, if it's a crush u feel it 24 hours for a couple of months, but luv is a complicated mixture of extreme feelings (if u feel moderate that means u r out of luv) well, this is how i feel i don't know if the rest of the world feels the same. it really helps to test ur feelings and reactions to other men and to place urself under the selfishness test (when u lov him, u will not take selfish decisions in important issues)
2006-08-13 11:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are inlove, our bodies react to the heightened emotional state, thus causing one to act of feel in way that is very different from what we used to be.
You may have noticed but, your heart seem to skip a thousand beat, you can't eat and you can't sleep, the love of your life is always on your mind... things like that... its confusing but at the same time, its really nice, isnt it?
That's what psychologists categorize as EUSTRESS, its positive stress.
Im wishing you all the best. Its great to be inlove
2006-08-13 11:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been in love twice in my life and I can tell you this. If you're in love, you know it. You wake up and you're thinking about her. You go to bed and you're thinking about her. The only important thing is being with her. It's hard to eat. It's hard to sleep. And then after about a year of marriage, all you want to do is eat and sleep. You can't wait to go out with the boys to get away from her. You wish to hell she'd close her mouth when she chews her food. And that laugh. How did I ever think that shreiking cackle was cute? Did she have that moustache when we were dating? Why can't she check the oil in her own car? Do I have to do everything around here? Was I out of my mind back when we were dating!!!??? Arrrrrghhhhhhhh!!!!? Isn't love wonderful?
2006-08-13 11:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for everyone, but for me the over-riding emotion is wanting his happiness before my own.
As to the physical sensation, just thinking about him while I answer your question and I am tingling all over and my juices are running.
We have been together for six months and the feelings sharpen and the physical effects deepen
2006-08-13 11:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in love I was everything for her.I am ok whatever she said.
Stay home don't go work.---ok!!
I want to go shopping with my ex-boy friend I need some money--ok!
Any thing wahtever she said--I am ok!
Any way after 4 months I can't survive I broke up.
2006-08-13 11:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ethio /Habeshaw/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its different for everyone but i get butterflies when i think of a girl i love, and i feel nauseous when i picture her with someone else.
oh yeah, and if the thought of never seeing your bf again makes you feel dreadful, then you love him.
love is a many splendoured thing.
peace n love, swot xxxxx
2006-08-13 11:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by swot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is your not secure with your self or you don't want to be in this relationship ,try going to a mental health and talking to a councilor so you don't have these problems in the future
2006-08-13 11:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by wil_t52 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel warm and tingly inside
feels like your stomach is in knots
these are just two ways to feel love
2006-08-13 11:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by ryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋