After a row with my partner last night, he is not talking to me. He let me down after we had made plans and i feel hurt and upset. He is trying to put the blame on me but he is the one in the wrong. Ive tried to explain to him how i felt but he wont listen or reply to my messages. I know he loves me but he is very selfish and stubborn. What should i do now about it??
2006-08-13 04:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if it was his fault then as stubborn as he may be,he will eventually realise he was in the wrong,but only if you start giving him the cold shoulder.the best thing i think you could do is simply play stubborn with him..as much as it will be hard,you egnor him untill he says sorry.each time he does wrong and you go chassing him he gets what he wants,im sure deep down he nos he is in the wrong but is getting the best of you running after him,making you feel like youve done wrong.stop texting him,calling him ect.if its ment to be he will come around and maybe he will sort it out like an adult.hope it all goes well.good luck
2006-08-13 04:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by sammydeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess my question would be, is it important enough to hang on to your "being upset" to ruin today as well? Or if this happens frequently, maybe this isn't the relationship for you after all. Many people get caught up in the "need to be right" that they miss out on the today and tomorrow of having fun. Conversation about the issue if it is a big enough deal is important, and if your partner doesn't like to discuss your feeling bad it will be hard to get through the big problems in a relationship. Of course some women tend to make issues out of every tiny little detail that bothers them and men soon tend to shut down because of it. Don't sweat the small stuff!!
I would also really look at your use of the word "love". Does someone that "loves" you, ignore you?
2006-08-13 11:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your in the right then the biggest mistake you can make would be to negotiate the problem. If or when he can admit it was his fault,..then begin to go forward with talking about it. It takes a real man to admit when he is wrong. Like I said before......if you know your right.
2006-08-13 11:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not talking to you after you gave him some? something is wrong with him.
2006-08-13 11:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lt Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not talk to him
2006-08-13 11:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋