My girlfriend went to England to visit family. I went out with a nice girl from work. We were at a bar laughing, having a few drinks and at some point we were very close to each other and kissed, but it was a quick kind of innocent kiss and that was it nothing more. I even said "hey what are we doing". As we are leaving the bar I see this "distant friend" of my girlfriend and she kind of smiled at me, I smiled back and that was that.
I can already picture the following situation: She goes to my girlfriend and says...your boyfriend was with this chick laughing, drinking and they were kissing...they left the bar at 1:am and who knows what happened next. Infact I left my car in the parking lot as I had a little too much vodka, she took a taxi and I walked home thinking that I now have a hot potato in my hands.
I am not even sure this girl saw this meaningless kiss, and I really do not know what to do now.....any suggestions.
2006-08-13 03:53:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-13 03:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to take a risk on. You were in a public place, the kiss was not passionate (you kept it from being anything but friendly - good job), and you went home alone. If this 'distant friend of your girlfriend' decides to relate something else to your better half she will look like the fool, not you. If all else fails, save your question and the answers for proof.
2006-08-13 04:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to come clean. She'll be upset and hurt, but it's best to tell her the truth. If she found out years from now, you'd have a lot of explaining to do and she would wonder what else you lied about. When she asks (and she will) why you waited so long to tell her, just say you were trying to find the right way. Tell her you love her so much and you didn't want to tell her, but you know it's the right thing to do. Tell her you feel guilty for keeping it from her, and you want her to know it was nothing and it will never happen again. That should help things smooth over...good luck.
2006-08-13 04:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think honesty is the best policy, but I don't know in this case. The girlfriend will definitely tell on you, we know that! You might go for a partial, and see what else she's been told. You went out after work with colleagues. You saw her friend as you were leaving at the same time as the girl, you were too intoxicated, so you walked home. If the friend told about the kiss, deny it, you're already in deep trouble!
2006-08-13 04:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Definitely come clean. Its not worth the risk. Who knows what the friend saw or didn't see, or what she's going to say (especially if she'd been drinking as well). Don't make a big deal out of it, but do mention it while talking about what you did while she was away. That way, if the friend does say something, your covered.
2006-08-13 04:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by carisathedreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend means anything to you, come clean immediately.
You don't know if her friend saw your or not. If she did you can bet she will tell, and that will devastate your g/f.
While it will hurt her to hear it from you, its better if it is that way. If comes from a third party, she will know what you did and also know that you cant be trusted to tell the truth when it matters. Which will make it that much harder to mend things.
2006-08-13 04:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by dannyl410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your girl because usually when her girlfriends have to tell her they make it seem like it's more and go all off the deep end saying stuff that they really didnt c u and if she doesnt like u she'll come up witha lot more than what ur saying it was.
2006-08-13 04:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by blaque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea....just let it ride until it surfaces; which it may not. You're worrying about something that hasn't happened yet, Dude. If it does surface, just tell your girlfriend that your friend bought you a drink for the kiss and you talked all night about HER and how much you missed HER. It's no biggie...stop beating yourself up.
2006-08-13 03:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
come clean its better then your girlfriend fiding out from her friend tell the truth then there will not be a trust issue between you and your girlfriend
2006-08-13 03:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by jc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up to your gf. That looks a lot better than explaining yourself after you got caught.
2006-08-13 03:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop drinking, it could have very well gotten you into heading for a breakup with your girlfriend if you don't come clean and be honest with her.
2006-08-13 04:01:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋