2006-08-13 03:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are now calling my wife and asking for her to set them up with a friend. I think they are stepping over the line.
2006-08-13 04:11:01 · update #1
Why not be both..Just bexcause you are their boss doesn't mean you can't be their freind
2006-08-13 03:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just like that.
"So and so, I am not your friend, I am the manager (boss, owner, etc.) and you are my employee. You work according to what I tell you and you get paid for it. If you dont understand this, then you need to find another job.
Got it?
Now go back to work."
If they try to argue or have a conversation. You put your hand up and tell them that "This is not a debate."
You don't have to give them reasons.
2006-08-13 10:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to experience being my supervisors only employee, she treated me different than other staff in the office;some days I would feel totally isolated from the inner office conversations and the camaraderie of the other ladies. My supervisor would eat lunch with the other staff and never me,but I know this is what bestso that I do not have any high expectations.
2006-08-13 11:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by kellymclin@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why arent you a freind? or did the position just go to your head. ?most boss men or women have freinds unless of course they dont respect you in the position of being a boss then fire them or threaten them . okay?
2006-08-13 11:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight forward,either way,its gonna be cruel,so the shortest way is the best way.
2006-08-13 10:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by AB 4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You plain out tell them. You sit them down and you have a conversation and tell them that you can't be friends and the reasons why.
Hope this helps!
2006-08-13 10:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
just be frank and firm with what you have to say. either you tell all your personnel or one person at a time whichever suits you..
2006-08-13 11:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by ?Kukay?® 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say get back to work or your fired
2006-08-13 12:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by flower that blossoms at night 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it makes you feel incomfortable whatever he is doing that makes you think you are friends.
2006-08-13 10:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u jus say "OBEY ME"
they will understand
2006-08-13 11:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by daredevil 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋