i found out last week i was pregnat with twins... i started gettin crapms and bleeding during the week went to my doctor and they said i had miscarried one of them so i thought ok i still have one but they told me i have to so that means i had triplets.
i had a miscarriage in april at 12 wks. and i can't carry my twins full term cos of medical problems. so i will be losing 4 babies in less than a yr i don't know what to do. i can't stop crying.
i was just getting over the miscarriage in april but now this happend i don't think i will ever get over this.
i'm 17 btw
2006-08-13 03:43:28 · 12 answers · asked by pretty_pink_gal2004 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if u don't think its tru then its ur problem alli want is some help.
2006-08-13 03:51:05 · update #1
my doc said i will lose the twins b4 i'm 20 wks he suggested gettin an abortion but im against that so the only other way is just letting me miscarry
2006-08-13 03:57:51 · update #2
Well..its obviously a hard situation. But you can get over this.
First you are 17, you have capacity and capability to have baby. And being pregnant comes with a great responsibilty, 'cos you r not alone anymore, you r carrying another 'Life'.You should watch your movement,in your daily life.
Go to your doctor to be examined well. if there is any medical problem with you(it seems you have).
And after all, pray to God to have your baby(s) and grow them healty. I wish you'll have robust babies soon and well...
2006-08-13 04:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by ferhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you loose the twins? how long are you able to carry them for as babies from 20weeks seem to have a pretty good survival rate these days! cat x
well an abortion sometimes can be the right decision, if your under 7 weeks then your babies dont even have a brain yet and are not formed and you know they will die then i think thats the best decision. If you let them grow to a fully formed baby and then they will just die I think thats worse. The trauma for everyone and them would be devistating
Is there no way you will be able to carry your babies longer?
2006-08-13 10:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Caterina24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you havent actually lost the 2 remaining babies yet? but your expecting to because of medical problems, u have actually lost them yet then i assssssssssume, if not y not consider having an elective abortion to save at least one which i assume ud be able to carry full term, but y are you letting yourself become pregnant twice a year at your age, how does your partner feel about the loss try talking to them, if not around give your body a break, losing babies generally means theres something not quite right going on, give your body a rest and leave trying to conceive for a few years, it is devastating to lose a baby or more but you just have to get on with greiving and try not dwelling on it too much, if u are still pregnant with two enjoy your pregnancy as much as you can and listen to all the dvice your midwife/obs give you, and y wouldnt any one believe this has happened to you?
2006-08-13 11:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by michwak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For a 17 year old your body is going through alot, what are you doing that is wrong? Are you on drugs? I would expect this from an older women like early 30s. Well good luck with the twins.
2006-08-13 16:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try not to think about it and wait until you deliver if you end up with a baby then that is good, and the joy from that baby will help. hun i wish you luck. take care. id like to smack bobbie. if your body wasnt ready then it shouldnt have let you get pregnant and i was 15 when i got pregnant had her at 16 and i am now 19. i am very mature, and yes it is expensive but she is so worth it. bobbie needs to shut up and stop judging you.
2006-08-13 10:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR 1 CRYING YOUR SELF TO DEATH CAN CAUSE A MISCARRIAGE. BCUZ U R STRESSING OUT UR SELF.JUST STAY STRONG THEY COULD B MIRACLE BABIES.I WISHU THE BEST OF LUCK. BUT IF U HAVE A BABY AFTER A MISCARRIAGE THATS NOT GOOD.
2006-08-13 11:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by UKNOUCIT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your 17.....wow....maybe you should wait before you start having babies..... maybe there is a reason your body is telling you not to have babies....your not ready...your only 17....there is all kinds of time to have babies......wait until you emotionally, financially<<
do you have a job to support your babies....they arent cheap you know...diaper alone and formula, unless you breastfeed, are expensive, then you have the clothes to buy.....yeah....no 17 year old is ready for babies
2006-08-13 10:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbi N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will survive please believe me at 17 you will go on to have healthy babies.you hardly lost 4 BABIES it was just like a late period.some people do loose real living babies lets hope it doesnt happen to you then
2006-08-13 10:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i couldnt imagine what your going through it must be terribel...if you want to chat my email add is klee_mumma@yahoo.com. im 18 and am due tomorrow. plz give me an email.....my other email add is klee_hotmumm7@hotmail.com
2006-08-13 11:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 17, you def. don't need to be having kids. You are still to young.
2006-08-13 11:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋