Would you leave?

Question

If your partner ignored you for video games?

he plays from the time he gets home till 2 or 3 in the morning and all the time on the weekends if i dont wake before him and get the computer.

I did try playing the game with him , but it wasnt for me.

I do suggest other things that i would like to do, i love fishing and camping, he does too but he always has an excuse, then stays on that game.

Answer 1

talk about it, compromise, let him know how you feel, let him feel and understand your pain. do you have a hobby you're really into? ask him if you spend all your time with your hobby and ignore him, how he would feel.

if he still doesn't get it, it's really your choice, depending on how much you love him and how much you want him around.

Answer 2

Did you suggest your bf to do something together instead of him playing video games? Or do you just want him to stop playing? i know how u feel but it would be nice if you had some ideas and share them with your bf.. ask him to do something together ..tell him how u feel about this which im sure u did like hundred of times but this time try to have like..understanding! =P Tell him u dont want him to stop playing cz u know he likes it but u feel left out and lonely when he plays all day.. Guys get addicted in games and they wont even admit it ..believe me i know=P Im sure ur bf plays because he has nothing better to do.. ask him to do something together and out of the house maybe.. and just to show him how lucky he is to have you ask him to show you how to play his favourite game.. you will make him the happiest man on earth =P
Rent a movie , go out for dinner, prepare him breakfast n take it to bed.. spend the whole daytogether.. and then cook for him.. he'll see what hes missing with playing all day..
If he's still stuck then I would leave but im sure u wont need it if u change the routine a bit
Good luck!!!

Answer 3

go out and party or something till late and make him wonder where u are. Walk in front of the screen as much as possible, without making it seem obvious.
Pretend to become obsessed over something like he is, and let it get on his nerves, and when he asks u about it say like
" You mean like video games, right?"

Answer 4

hell yeah i would. I would ask him first to get off the video game and if he doesn't I would leave...maybe go and visit his brother or something or friends. But other than that i would. If they were bsy doing something else (brother and friends...such as playing a game like poker) than I would just leave home. My boyfriend not get off of a game...man and he did that all the time...then i would break up with his sorry @ss.

Answer 5

Honey Moon over? It depends. how long he has be ignoring me. Find something you like to do. Or, play a game. That you both likes.. Good luck.. It hard to compete with video games..

Answer 6

I would allow a certain amount of time for the game, say an hour or two; and if the didn't want to be in my company after that time limit, then...YES...I'd say his game was more important to him than I was. If you're questioning your relationship, leave. Do yourself a favor.

Answer 7

Yes. Ignore somebody for video games? That show's they really don't care about you.

Answer 8

Depends on how long you have been with your partner and how much time they spend on the games. Need more info to make a more accurate assumption.

Answer 9

my bf played wow(world of warcraft) and i almost left. he tried to get me to play. i suggest trying out the game with your bf so that you can see what the fuss is about and spend some time getting to know his interests. however, if gaming's not up your ally and your bf still ignores you, i would leave.

Answer 10

A lady must always be the top priority in her man's life! Leave him.