cause my boyfriend lives 2 hours way from me and he is sweet and kind and cute and funny but he goes to a diffrent school and i trust him but i dont trust the girls.........?????????........breaking up with him isnt a choice so dont sasy it
2006-08-13 03:29:04 · 20 answers · asked by raisinme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I thought you meant he lives in another country or something, 2 hours away is what I would call near..
2006-08-13 03:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are different now since the internet is here. You can chat long distance, real time and not spend a fortune on a phone bill. You have a pretty good chance if you are both interested in being together. You will know soon enough if one of you is not really interested.
2006-08-13 03:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships can work but you must be committed!! There has to be a lot of trust!! If you keep in touch and get to hang out every once in a while then everything could work out fine!! It might be hard at times but i'm sure you can do it! IF you really love him it can work! good luck!
2006-08-13 03:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him then dont worry about the other girls, trust is the biggest factor in a relationship. . . so if hes not going to do anything out of turn then it doesnt matter what the other girls want or try
long term can work, my brother and his girl lived apart for years ( he was in the forces) and she was in britain, they are now married with 2 kids and been together bout 20 years
2006-08-13 03:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by purplepatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to trust others, if you trust him the others wouldn't be a problem. He's responsible for his own actions. So if others hit on him, he turns them down, it's not a big deal. You sure he'll turn them down? Long distance does work, although being as young as you are, I'm not sure it would for you? Does one of you have a car so they can go see the other?
2006-08-13 03:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is all about trust and giving. The fact that you're finding it difficult to trust the girls around your guy means that you're only pretending that you trust him. Infact, it is your guy you don't trust and not those "imaginary" gurls. Let me tell you that distance relationship works perfectly. But its workability depends on the commitment of the people involved.
2006-08-13 03:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say this one is doomed to failure. Most are, but being so young and in school, you'll both find someone else pretty soon. If I were you, I would continue to play it, but be aware that there are other men. You don't need a serious relationship at this time in your life anyway.
2006-08-13 03:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its only to hours away it possible it works u just got to trust him not to cheat on u and u not to cheat in him u guys can do lots of things like one day in the morning u go to his house then ur parents pick u up n go home then next week he comes over see
2006-08-13 03:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by gelcoolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO they usually dont esp when unmarried. when there is no commitment its even more difficult. Ive had two of them fail when I KNEW THAT CLOSE PROXIMITY WOULD have saved thosr relationships but in a recession people need their jobs and its all about money in this world. Its too sad.
2006-08-13 03:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust I dont think so
Insecurity maybe
Immaturity definitley
2006-08-13 03:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋