After the break up, she wanted to be friends. I've always believed that some people are not meant to be friends post break up. If it didn't work then, why should it work now? I care about this girl and wouldn't want to hurt her feelings, but i don't think it is going to work out as friends. We are two different beings that do not share the same views. What would you guys do or say to stop her from trying to contact you, without telling her straight out that its not going to work or just stop calling her back when she leaves messages?
2006-08-13 02:32:25 · 16 answers · asked by alter_ego 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her exactly what you just told us here. if that doesn't work, then stop returning her calls. you're right, some people just can't be friends after a break up, it sounds to me like she's still trying to hang onto whatever she can with you cuz she's just not ready to accept the fact that it's over with.
2006-08-13 02:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to be a little mean to stop her from calling you. Leave her a message saying that you don't like her calling as much as she did when you two were together. It's not the meaning of friends. Once a week is okay. But right now it's too much cause you guys just broke up. You could always change your phone number.
2006-08-13 02:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you really only have the two choices: Either you tell her straight out that you don't think it's going to work to be friends, or you become evasive--don't return her calls, always have an excuse to end the converation if you answer the phone, always have plans if she wants to get together, etc. Eventually she should get the message. But, if she decides to ask you point blank, what's the matter, you better be prepared to tell her the truth. So why not get it over with now.
2006-08-13 02:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live with other people have them answer the phone and say your not home. Enough of that and she will probably give up. If you have an answering machine keep it on and let her leave a message, your not obligated to call her back...she's not your girlfriend any more. If worse comes to worse you could very nicely tell her to please not call you any more and be firm about it. If all else fails....just be freinds with her and let her call. Be boring on the phone, just say yes, no, and make sounds like uh huh....make it seem like your busy all the time....good luck.
2006-08-13 02:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do no longer. which would be undesirable for her. in line with possibility she has won weight because of the fact she is feeling depressed (in all probability because of the fact she feels which you at the instant are not interested in her). in case you nonetheless look after her, and the courting yet are basically no longer bodily interested in her, advise something exciting and actual to do togehter. attempt suggesting a walk with the aid of a park, or a motorbike holiday. it can be a cute date in case you propose nicely. yet once you're basically fed up, then injury up together with her, gently. tell her you do no longer sense love that's understanding. do no longer tell her she's fat, or unattractive. this is terrible. And stay faraway from her sister. it somewhat is undesirable sort.
2016-09-29 05:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to stop doing if you happen to don't stop calling and texting i will name the police on you. I had some guy that I informed stop calling years go had stopped. Then he start calling again but with my new quantity have no idea how he gtot it. My mom called him to inform him to discontinue calling me if he does not stop i would call the police. He listened now he now not calling...
2016-08-09 11:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you just be honest up front. Tell her it is impossible for you to remain friends at this point. If it hurts her feelings, this is what it might take to get your point across, emphasize that you don't want to hurt her, but this is the way things have to be.. She'll have no choice but to accept it eventually.
2006-08-13 02:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this bothers you this much tell her too stop calling ,but if was me I would start telling her how much fun I was having with this other girl then she might not call so much I am sure she dose not wont to hear this, but u can still be frends
2006-08-13 02:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by toolman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to quit doing if you do not quit calling and texting I will name the police on you. I had a few man that I advised quit calling years move had stopped. Then he begin calling once more however with my new quantity do not know the way he gtot it. My mother referred to as him to inform him to quit calling me if he does not quit I might name the police. He listened now he now not calling...
2016-08-21 00:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by dorthy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't want to be friends and to stop calling. after a while and she sees you w/ another girl she will want to get back together.
2006-08-13 02:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by repentant sinner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋