I am not sure what my sexual orientation would be... :'-(
I am okay with sex with guys, anal sex only a bottom, oral I refuse to give to anyone. I am okay with being with a man or a woman in a serious relationship, but never want to be in a sexual relationship with a woman, EVER, and would prefer to be with a guy...
2006-08-13 02:17:38 · 24 answers · asked by Aaron 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Aaron, it sounds as if you are gay.
I was in a relationship with a man- i didn't mind being with him, but sex was such a chore for me. women for me are great.
dont fight it, do what makes you happy.
2006-08-13 02:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
So lets see, you like sex with guys, but only anal and your the bottom, you don't want a sexual relationship with women, and prefer to be with a guy. YOUR GAY !! Not a bad thing. I think a serious relationship does include sex. I would think it would be good for you to experience more with men, safely also. I really think if you read your question you will get your answer. Maybe it just needed some confirmation!
2006-08-13 10:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by nicenvt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sound like an all out gay boy to me... alot of us are able to maintaine strong emotional feelings with the opposite sex... but if there is nothing there as far as sexual attraction your gay......
nothing wrong with that... Im not sure many woman would wish to stay in a relationship where sex wasnt involved... so maintaining a heterosexual relationship would prolly be pretty hard for you...
you might wanna get out and get some real life experience and find out what your odds are for finding a woman that would commit long term if sex wasnt involved first hand...
when you are able to feel confident heterosexual relationships are not in your best intrest and that females should be in your life for friendships only then you can put forth the energy into finding the man that is right for you...
Of cource im not sure how old you are...or any possible factors that may contribute to your feelings etc.. so there is a chance if you are able to overcome those issues ( if there are any ) you may be able to progress with with women
good luck... alot of times it not as clear cut to us as it is to others... go slow.. give yourself time.. do lots of soul searching...ask yourself questions and try to find answers over time... and reask them if things feel like they have changed... and see if your answers have also changed...
2006-08-13 11:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why no oral? Why would you be in a relationship with a woman but never sexual? I really think you see a therapist, not trying to be mean.
2006-08-13 11:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like you have already answered the question, maybe you just need to read it. I think the most appropriate "label" for your orientation would be gay, keep the girls around as close friends, try the oral thing you will like it and I am sure your partner would appreciate it. BE SAFE always wear a condom.
2006-08-13 10:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by StrongNSilentType 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested only in males for sex -- you are gay.
Not all guys like exactly the same combination of things sexually -- I happen to love giving oral, but for anal I'm a top.
Have fun, believe in yourself and be happy.
*hugs*
Regards,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-08-13 10:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're GAY. No woman wants a "serious" relationship without the sex. Sex is PART of what makes it serious anyway. Stop doing this to yourself. Go find yourself a boyfriend and forget all about this sh!t. Go now!!
2006-08-13 10:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're gay. The sex with a man is a huge part. Relationships / friendships can be with anyone, but who you get into bed with determines and identifies who you are.
2006-08-13 12:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you would be the "femme" side of a gay relationship, if I may put it that way? Maybe you are a wee bit sub as well or just prefer to be on the bottom and passive. Dont sweat it man, just go for it BUT, take the warnings of others on here, Safe sex is better than death.........................
2006-08-13 10:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I myself don't see how you gay guys can take it, I recently had a
colonoscopy and it hurt like hell. All I can say is I prefer the drama of being with a women and the sex.
2006-08-13 11:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dude you have to be sure of who you are... if that is your observation then finalize it and appreciate it... it would release you from being tie of CONFUSION thing... and don't ever continue practicing loving both sexes at the same time that will surely make more more confusion.... trust yourself for any decision you have and face strongly what will be the effect of it....
2006-08-13 09:32:06 · answer #11 · answered by DONG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋