i had a dream about my dad last nite and we were having sex.when i woke up i was so turned on that i started to have sex with my fiancee and it was awesome.is there something wrong with me because i had that dream about my dad
2006-08-13 02:17:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sometimes can't help what you dream. When you were having sex with your fiancee, who were you thinking about him or your dad? There could be a problem there if it was your dad.
2006-08-13 02:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, dream symbology is something I had studied, and all dreams are about yourself, generally speaking having sex with your Dad would be wrong, but you were not dreaming about an actual event, but a dream! It is like fantasy. The mind is trying to tell you something about yourself.
The father represents the superconscious mind (representing the innermost levels of consciousness colectively known as the spirit). Therein lies your authority as a person. it is meant to supply the spark of life which animates the outer parts of your mind. Its function is to hold the seed idea for your maturity as a creator of your own life. The origin of the word father meaning "to feed" is very apparent here.
So, what is your relationship with your own creation process for yourself? Are you aware of the power entailed therein? You seem to really want to embrace it, and know it is there. You believe in yourself while at the same time not feeling like you can rely on it. What is your relationship with your father at this time? Either you are pushing yourself to be everything you can be to make yourself proud, or else, he may be encouraging you to pursue certain activities that you may be thinking about, but you don't know how to handle them.
Sex indicates duality. I don't know all the details of the dream, but you may need to be receptive, if not expecting the support from your father. He is a go-getter, or so you may see him as, unless he is one that really gets things done when he says he will. The component of sex may shed light on the fact that you may be very anxious about a project you may be working on, or are contemplating.
Dreaming about sex, refers to the psychological completion and the integration of contrasting aspects of the Self. You need to be more receptive and incorporate aspects of your dream sex partner into your own character. In what ways can you incorporate those feelings into your waking life. I hope this sheds some light on your dilemma.
Just no that dreams are an expression of innermost corners of your own life that you may not know how to deal otherwise. So, at night, the mind is making its mark.
2006-08-13 09:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by fabmaster6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to touch this, but neither will I insult you and your issues. I will however suggest that you see a sex therapist or whatever therapist you can based on your insurance benefits.
Being that is such a deep subject, I would only trust the opinion and advice of a more qualified therapist. We all can tell you what we think, but you will still have the dreams, and unresolved questions after reading all of our answers.
You do not have to considered CRAZY, to seek the help of a therapist. Do it soon!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-13 09:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Brighteyes9541 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get worried if the dream repeats. If it does, talk to a professional, and dont hurry to share with your fiancee, cause it is a little "Sigmund Freud'ish", you know.
2006-08-13 09:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experts say dreams last 3-5 seconds. Don't worry about it.
2006-08-13 09:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh strange dreams,,indeed,but since we can't quiete control our dreams.we may control our emotions afterwards.also such dreams may have a hidden mean,,,such as u looking for a father figure in the relationship.BTW u and ur fiancee,try to find out,
2006-08-13 09:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by brasil_mulher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check all the books written by psychologists on this subject, and you will find that you are by all means normal! Go to sleep with a smile and enjoy the results!
2006-08-13 09:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dream itself wasn't wrong as we can't control our dreams, but to be turnbed on by it is a little strange i think. i'm not saying it's wrong, but it's kinda creepy ok. try to think about why it turned you on and then maybe you'll understand yourself a little better
2006-08-13 09:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams can be "ridiculous".
As long as you don't land up having sex with your dad.
2006-08-13 09:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by feel good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took all your dreams seriously you would loose your mind.... Dream's can be really goofy and mean nothing... so don't worry and just try not to think about it...
2006-08-13 09:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋