please help me - my husband asked me that does he make me happy when he makes love to me, i m bit shy but sametime i dont want to hurt him by saying anything stupid i m real very much happy with our sex life but how do i put it in to proper words for him so that he feels good.
2006-08-13 02:05:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's really nice from him to ask about your feelings,ot all men do this!u need just to say the same words that you said here,you're a lucky woman,& your husband should be happy & gratfull b/c u're married to him!!
i whish the best in your life together!!
PS:Men like to hear from time to time good things about their skills in love,so,tell him sweet words about him,this will be good & he will be happy!!!
2006-08-13 02:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by marie_2902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always best to be totally honest with your partner, especially in the bedroom. If you’re not satisfied or bored you should discuss this, not right after love making of course, and try to discuss what will make things work again in the bedroom. If you have to, take it outside the bedroom and be a little more spontaneous. Our biggest sex organ is the brain, when we are totally in love with our partner the act of love making is always satisfying, although sometimes we are not in the mood we as women have to put ourselves in a place and take over to satisfy ourselves and our partner. Take charge of the love making to ensure that you will have the "Big O" (and not have to fake it). Suggest the two of you experiment; I would first try sensual massages, the longer the massage the better, then I would then spice things up. There are many lotions, creams, games and toys that can be used as a couple that you both will enjoy.
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2006-08-13 10:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by cubangoddess73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with him 1000%. If there is something wrong he can not fix it if him does not know it is broken. Plus you have to boost his ego. Trust me I was almost in your same shoes for 23 yrs, but I kept my mouth shut, and I found out recently That he was having an affair. But I feel that if I had been honest it may not have happened. But now we are working on our marriage seeking counseling and thing are better than they were when we first got married. So please do not make the same mistake that I did.
2006-08-13 09:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by mammaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first thing is, you have to be more of a woman and not a scared little girl. because he wants a woman in bed, right??? OK so now as a woman your not afraid of your man right?but as a scared little girl of course you would be wouldn't you. now the woman in bed with her husband, a man, can trust in him and be able to share wants and needs because now we are all grown ups, he will respect that and he would want more then anything to please his woman. treat him like a man because that's what he is to you not like your disapproving father, he's your husband. be his wife. stop acting so foolish, if you keep this up he may just go looking for the woman that he is missing at home. would you want that??? !NO! you wouldn't.... so you have to be the woman he needs, and you will find that he will very much be the man for you to love......
2006-08-13 09:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm reading between the lines here and I don't think you are happy with sex life, I think you are accepting it because you are too "shy" to tell him he's not hitting the right buttons!! You will never be in heaven, if you don't speak up!!
2006-08-13 09:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you hurt him by saying I'm happy with our sex life? Tell him you make me feel good baby.
2006-08-13 09:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you dont have any problem na..so go ahead tell him he is just great in bed.You enjoy every bit of your love making session and say that you love him a lot.
2006-08-13 09:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just said....your very happy with your sex life. Tell him he satisfies you completely. That should make him feel very good.
2006-08-13 09:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Shira D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him show him by doing the things he does that makes you happy. Actions speak louder than words!
2006-08-13 09:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dispense with the shyness and say: "Oh yes baby, I love our sex life! It is great!" Don't forget to say it with gusto and a big smile but most importantly...mean it!
2006-08-13 09:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋