I'm a lesbian and why when 2 women are honest about what they want from each other (friendship) then you end up having sex and it changes everything?
2006-08-13 01:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by Seven 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
coz you are supposed to have sex from the opposite sex,... and because from the back of your head you know that then you feel guilty about it.
2006-08-13 01:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am tempted to give you some stupid answer and get on you for being gay, but I then I would be wrong. The truth of the matter is yes, sex changes everything no matter if you are homosexual or heterosexual because of the intimacy involved. It creates of feeling inside both people involved of a higher awareness of the other person. From thoughts of was I good enough for her to what did I do wrong, to what could I do to make things better. I takes over the whole thought process around the person that you are involved with. Now instead of normal friendship thoughts, the sex thoughts get involved and everything changes, sometimes for the good, sometimes for bad.
2006-08-13 01:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by redhotboxsoxfan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like at least one person was not honest and wanted more than friendship. Friends don't have sex with friends. Like others have stated, this is not unique onto gay folks. I think the common denominator in this problem regardless of who you love is 'selfishness'. Until you find someone who is truly selfish expect more of the same.
2006-08-13 04:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Handy but Perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have the two women experience part to draw from, but with men, it's been the same for me. It seems that once you have sex, it's continuous for a while, and the nice courtship and friendship part of it changes.
2006-08-13 01:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but, it's the same with gay men, and the same with straights..
I wish I knew why it was like that, but, unfortunately, I don't.. Maybe because the partners start taking the other for granted because their needs and wants are being met.
I guess that, like the meaning of life, if we ever were to figure it out, we'd be way ahead of the game.
Although, I know the meaning of life, and I accepted Him into my life many years ago.
But, I'm not here to preach to ya. smiles..
God Bless and Keep you.
2006-08-13 01:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by chuckufarley2a 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a straight guy, but I've learned that the emotional and physical attributes that sex brings are a lot to handle if that's not what you were looking for. although, sometimes sex is all you have; and the relationship won't work.
2006-08-13 01:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by js8incher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases it's the thrill of the hunt , as soon as the prey has be captured the excitement is gone.
2006-08-13 01:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, THAT was too much information for so early in the day!
2006-08-13 01:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by ezkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NOT AT ALL but it does make you feel less like arguing
2006-08-13 01:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk. I see it the same way though.
2006-08-13 01:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋