well, i have this boyfriend from less than a month ..he is good to me and he cares alot, at the same time he used to be my bestfriend from about 3 years..but these days i cant stand him ..i feel like he's silly and akid especialy when i compare him with my ex-bf...and sometimes when i talk to my sister about it ..i feel like my ex was areal man but this one is a boy..plus we havent been togather so long and he started telling me about marriage and things like that and am sick of it..i feel like in jail..and am not happy at all and i regret being with him..i wish i can fuc*k off ..and run..but he has got my sister's number and he will cause problems am sure ..and i hate that also..please help me ..dont tell me that its my life and its his problem..i want a solution..i need it .how can i tell him, am sure he will be shocked..he keeps saying i love you and i say love you too..hope you got my point..please ppl be helpful ..am dying here..and am glad its not more than a month bein wid him
2006-08-13 01:09:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try honesty. It will be brutal, particularly to him. But by trying to soften the blow he might not get the picture and keep coming after you.
Comparing him with your ex is not fair to him though, keep that in mind for your next bf.
2006-08-13 01:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by pete_can_do 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that unhappy then you need to break it off with him immediately. No sense in prolonging something that makes you feel uncomfortable. I walked away from a 5 year relationship - not an easy thing to do, but grew tired of the control, manipulation and the self-centeredness i was dealing with on an every day basis.
Mine did the same. Phone calls, text messages, emails, notes on my door, etc., etc., I never read any of them or responded either. After awhile he took the hint that i was serious and he had no place in my life.
2006-08-13 08:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't live together it should be easy, although you should have never said the 3 deadly words unless you meant it the same way he did. A month is nothing, and if he was your best friend for 3 years he should understand.
2006-08-13 08:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by BIGRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with your ex and let him find out, tell him he is so bad in bed you need your ex, tell him you told your sister in law and she laughed at him
reticule about sex will make any man go away
2006-08-13 08:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. If he really does care about you, he will see your unhappy and let you go.
2006-08-13 08:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 stop saying you love him...
or at least.....say as a friend after it....
then segway into...i miss how it was when we were just friends....and you want to go back to it
2006-08-13 08:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Peter M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋