Cancer and Cancer !!!?

Question

i'm a cancer and i meet a guy who is also cancer can this last,or will it work ?!

Answer 1

When two Cancerians come together in a love affair, a loving and yet very emotional domestic relationship ensues. A Cancer-Cancer match makes for a deeply devoted duo, endlessly loyal to one another. Both will learn the ins-and-outs of their partner, the best ways to heat each other up or, if necessary, to cool one another down. Both will also find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying commitment to one another. This couple is faithful and caring, helpful and sympathetic of individual needs and very oriented toward making a home and creating a sense of family -- especially when they can get over their brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits. If they can find a way to keep their fluid and moody emotions in check, this relationship will nurture both lovers.

A Cancer's place is in the home. Once safely entrenched in their personal sanctuary, the moody Crab may forget about the world outside, not paying mind to the opinions of others, only concerned with what's going on behind their own closed doors. This attitude carries over into relationships: Like their cherished possessions and material comforts, Cancer never hesitates to defend a loved one if threatened. This devotion and willingness to fight and toil for the survival and success of their relationships are really a Crab's greatest contributions to the game of love. It's no wonder Cancer's symbol is the 'crabby' scuttling Crab, for outbursts and flare-ups are common with this emotional crustacean. While their mood swings may injure each other's feelings, it's a Cancer's subtle mastery of the fine art of emotional manipulation that one should watch out for.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and this Sign is sensitive to the moods that ebb and flow with the Moon's monthly cycles. The Moon, the maternal orb of the heavens, is the celestial force behind Cancer's great maternal and care-giving nature. The energy of this instinct creates a warm, secure home environment, a perfect love nest for the growing and cultivation of a healthy relationship.

Cancer is a Water Sign. Instinct and emotion drive this relationship. With these deep, intense intuitive powers comes a fragility, as Cancer's feelings are brittle and easily hurt. Hence, that Crabby shell in which they hide themselves when frightened or overwhelmed. So often retreating to their shells can put a strain on any relationship with a Cancer, but two Crabs together will hopefully be perceptive of each other's needs for personal space and temporary time-outs. The key is realizing that it's not a personal slight if one of these Cancers wants some alone-time. This Watery element of their nature can protect them and their loved ones from the harsh realities of the outside world.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Though not the most physically active of the Signs, a Cancer's quick emotional reflexes and powers of perception offer an alternate line of defense under stress. The Crab is not shy about getting exactly what they want from their partner. The protecting feral beast within is the first emotional element to leap forward under stress or a threat to the pack. However, these bursts of emotion may overwhelm a Cancer and crush their tender feelings. Fierce loyalty binds this Cancer-Cancer love match, but it can also threaten its very existence. Both partners must always strive to see things from their lover's point of view as well as their own.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Cancer love match? Their utter devotion to enriching their commitment and the strong emotional bond between them. Together, this pair will protect one another and keep their love safe from the outside world, as well as work toward creating a happy domestic life and nurturing a loving family.

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When two Crabs come out of their shells and size each other up, an emotional tidal wave is unleashed. Tidal waves generate massive amounts of energy, but are usually short-lived, leaving a trail of devastation in their wake.

Cancer the Crab is a Water Sign, so both of you are deeply emotional and sensitive, almost to the point of being psychic. You are so sensitive in fact that you have learned to build a tough shell around your tender heart, for protection. This is part of the symbolism of the Crab, along with the tendency to sidle around a problem, rather than face it head-on. As a lover you seek security and fidelity, and, although you are not above a few flirtatious peccadillos of your own, you can be deeply wounded if the one you care for betrays your trust. Cancer is poetic and romantic, but also practical in matters to do with the home and raising a family. Cancer is reassuringly protective, even possessive, but can be a jealous lover, though more from insecurity than simple desire to dominate.

Your vein of sexuality runs deep, but follows a path strewn with obstacles, often of your own making. Ruled by the Moon, you tend to flow with the tides and are very reflective of your environment.Opening the floodgates of emotion to a fellow soul is an enormous relief, but this can often lead to a serious problem as time goes on. Sensitive Cancerians under pressure can retreat within themselves and allow repressed emotions to bottle up until they either explode with devastating force, or implode catastrophically, causing general meltdown.

The fluctuating Moon can reflect a moodiness in your nature that is not always understood nor appreciated, even by another Crab, especially when you allow irrational emotions to rule your otherwise sensible head. The problem is this: when one Cancer is on an emotional high, so is the other. This is fine, isn't it..? But what about when both Crabs are have a bad dose of the moody blues and are both crawling dismally along the bottom of a very muddy pond? You have a lot in common, and that's the trouble. You understand each other perfectly and can wound each other without even trying. Both are too sensitive, too demanding, too dependent. Cancer needs the sinuous flirtatious worship of the Fish, or the slinky, supportive sexuality of the Scorpion, not the agonising nippers of a fellow Crab. Enjoy it while it lasts, but don't become co-dependent. Unless you have fabulous Moon and Ascendant connections, look elsewhere for love.

Answer 2

I agree with the other folks, signs aren't the most important thing. But... I want to tell you that you have a lot to look forward to in a Cancer + Cancer relationship! I'm a Cancer, and so is my man. We've been dating for over a year now, and we're both sure that it's going to wind up being one of those happily ever after sort of things.

The good stuff: You actually understand each other! This was a big deal for me. I have a very loving family, they are great, but they never understood some of my particular crab traits. They didn't understand that cancer sensitivity, etc. My man and I are both like that, though it manifests itself in different ways in a guy. He understands my feelings, we're both very expressive about how much we love each other, we have the same priorities about money. It's the best relationship I've ever been in. I've never felt so understood, loved and accepted.

The potential downside: A lot of the "compatibility readings" and stuff like that will point out that when you do have that rare disagreement, it can be difficult because neither of you will back down, and both of you can get your feelings hurt. We deal with this by always having open communication, and remembering that we're more important to each other than whatever we're arguing about.

When it comes down to it, I don't know if we're so happy because we're both Cancers, or because we're both right for each other in other ways, but a Cancer + Cancer match can be great.
If you want, go to a website like horoscopes.com and get a profile made for the two of you. I wouldn't put too much stock in it, but it can be really fun.

Answer 3

Going out with a guy of your own sign will be a warm and familiar-feeling experience. You'll be tuned into one another very well, plus you'll both make sure all your needs are taken care of in the sweetest, most loving way possible. Since you both have the Moon as your ruler, you'll understand that your moods can change now and then. Even when they're not in synch, you can coddle one another until you both feel better, making this a magic match. Your Cancer boy will make you feel comfortable and anticipate all your needs, but it might get frustrating when it doesn't seem like he needs you to do anything for him. Remember, he's just like you! Don't wait for him to ask for a neck rub, just give him one! In this relationship you both will learn that it's okay to let somebody else take care of you every once in awhile.

Answer 4

I don't really believe much in astrology but I find it fascinating so I look into it every once in a while. Some sources say Cancer, which is a water sign, would go best with other water signs (Scorpio, Pisces) or with earth signs (Capricorn, Virgo, Taurus). It is viewed that two people of the same sign in a relationship is unpredictable (it can be great because you can understand each other, it can be bad due to an amplification of the same negative qualities). I will say that my husband and I discredit the compatibility "rules." He is a Libra (air) and I am a Cancer, and we couldn't be better (though our personalities DO coincide with our respective signs). So don't let astrology dictate to you who to be with.

Answer 5

I am a cancer, and have never been a relationship with another cancer. But my best guy friend is a cancer and we are totally cool together.
We have an agreement that if we are ever single at the same time we would hook up. Too bad it hasnt happened yet.

Answer 6

You must look to the whole chart to see what type of people you are attracted to not just your own sun sign and the other person's sun sign.

What aspects do your Sun, Moon and Ascendant make?

The 1st house is you, your personality and appearance..
The 5th house rules love affairs.
The 7th house rules partnerships.
The 8th house rules sexuality.

What planets are in the above houses and what aspects do they make? What signs are those planets in? What sign is on the cusp of those houses? What elements (fire, earth, air & water) and qualities (cardinal, fixed & mutuable) are involved?

For a female's chart you can look to the Sun and Mars and their aspects for what types of males they are attracted to.

For a male's chart you and look to the Moon and Venus and their aspects for what types of females they are attracted to.

Ideal Man for a Woman
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

Ideal Woman for a Man
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealwomanforaman.html

Any sign can be with any other sign. It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Answer 7

i dont believe in all this star sign compatibility stuff i think a couple works if they both love each other and put some effort in, there has to be give and take on both sides
if you have this dont worry what sign you are!

Answer 8

as far as i know cancers get along with eachother realy well

Answer 9

If you worry about what a horoscope says about your relationships....it will eventually fail because the horoscope will eventually tell you it is time to split up. Go with your heart!

Answer 10

Don't go for sun signs... it depends on your and your partner's devotion for this relationship.