Why is that when you meet a guy at a club (as I do most weekends cos the club scene up here is wicked!), have a great time with them and then in the morning when they say 'I'll call you', they never do! Why? Why say it if they don't mean it? Are all men liars or something? I am a slim, pretty, sexy girl - everyone says so, so it's not like I'm a minger or something!
2006-08-13 00:46:40 · 21 answers · asked by Easy Rider 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
Try a new approach....get their number and YOU call them. We always expect the men to make the first move and I think 9 times out of 10 they are too nervous to do so. I picked up my husband took him home slapped him around a bit and kept him! It doesn't always have to be the guys job to open the doors, take control of the situation. You could be pleasantly surprised!
2006-08-13 01:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by ploobis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several reasons they don't call. One they have a girl friend and are just out with the guys at the time and meet up with other girls. Two they don't want to be tied down so they just say that to make u happy at the time. Three they are married and can't call. List can go on forever. All Men are not liars but from experience alot of them are. Don't give up hun you will find one that will call you and probably have a great time with.
2006-08-13 07:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by dream_lady62 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl in a club once. She gave me her number and I dropped her off at her house in a taxi after the night out. I tried to call the number she gave me, but it was unobtainable. I tried again, as I thought she was genuine and it was still unobtainable.
After 2 weeks, I tried again and this time I got through. Apparantly her work number was down for two weeks (so she said!). We met up outside the Hippodrome for a first date, and it was great until I was relocated out of London and we just lost touch.
There were other issues though.
2006-08-13 07:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by James 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't meet anyone decent in a club honey!!
Blokes go to clubs to either get drunk, pull a bird or have a fight.
You'll meet nicer blokes at work, through firends or doing activities like language courses, salsa classes or something that interests you!
You will meet nothing but freaks on tinternet though chick so stay well clear!!!!!
2006-08-13 07:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by zebra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The blokes have alcohol running in their system and therefore their testostorne levels grow. They see a pretty girl and they have to go for it and get her number.
I have done it myself in the way of find a phone number in my phone, but not being able to remember where, when or why I have it. Normally alcohol related.
Its not that they necessarily forget, just the inhibitions kick back in the next morning and then they don't remember about it next time they are out.
2006-08-13 07:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chris F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are liars its just easier to say you'll call and get out of there.... what would you rather hear.... if you really like a guy ask him what hes after before you spend the night with him .. is it a one night stand or does he want something more ... happy hunting x
2006-08-13 08:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because clubs are not the right places to meet guys for meaningful relationships , half of the guys there are already commited to women and children and are out on the pull, accept this, and look elsewhere for a less shallow man and you will be happier !! there loss my love !
2006-08-13 07:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by sandra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this great time with them involve sleeping with them? if so they got what they wanted and are moving on..If you want a man long term or even short term let them chase you a bit..it is fun for both otherwise you come off as a sleaze..I am not saying you are..but to a guy it does..
2006-08-13 07:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Heather b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After the wolf has had his meat, he moves on to hunt elsewhere. There is no sense hanging around yesterday's prey.
2006-08-13 07:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might have to do with the fact that they got what they wanted already and that was the end of that.
Clubbers hunt and devour what they want then move on.
If you know what I mean.
2006-08-13 07:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋