Why do Woman find it hard?

Question

why do woman love guys to admire and do anything for them, but find it hard to return anything? Well, my wife anyway.

Answer 1

I don't know about all women..i give to my husband and children and show him i love him..i mean we do need to feel appreciated too...like a princess sometimes but you guys also have to feel like the king at times as well

Answer 2

Hey Ron you may be stepping into a battle field...watch your step. Women are very different from man's point of view sometimes, they are tender loving beautiful creatures God created, but they can be Evil too!
Let her be the one to guide you, but you will chase it because that is Man chasing a woman. You come from work and find your wife in tight hotpants sexy behind the stove cooking some fried chicken and she turns with her teashirt tied around her waste line showing her navel...what is the first thing on a Man's mind...obviously sex...right away, you can't wait to hop in bed and bang that one time or perhaps, why not turn the stove off and get it on right there on the floor because thats what she wants in her Man and that keeps your marriage cooking.
Now if you come home and see her cooking and you say "Hello, we haveing chicken, chicken again?" Sheesh, don't you ever cook anything else?"

ring the bell....you lost. you never even noticed her new hair color. You didn't even compliment her, you never even walked up and kissed her, so you get burnt chicken for dinner and top of that, she is going to prance ion front of you and make you sick at the tush and she will not let you have none. You will be on your hands and knees begging for her forgiveness, and she might think about it, but you will learn who is the boss in your home.
You are the bread winner and you are man of the house, buit she is the BOSS!!!!Rememeber that and your marriage wont fail you.

Answer 3

Hey wait a minute now. That's not true for ALL women. Some, and I mean "some" women (like your wife, for instance) have probably become too comfortable in a relationship that they don't feel a need to do or say anything in return to please their men. Or maybe they're just plain ol' selfish. On the other hand, maybe there's nothing about their men to praise. Who knows? In my relationship, we have learned not to take each other for granted. You teach someone how you want to be treated and just hope that they're a fast learner.

Answer 4

Not all women are like that you wife has probably been in relationships where she gave more then she was given and it created anger in her and she feels she needs to be on the recieving end now or maybe she's just a spoiled brat that feels that it all revolves around her!

Answer 5

Speaking for me I am the oppisite. I love doing things for a man. I guess the reason is because I have been alone for 15 years now and no one to do things for. I honestly think some women after marriage just take it for granted and don't bother doing the good things they should. But most men don't seem to do it either.
I just think people take others for granted alot.

Answer 6

Hey it is the opposite at my house I give my husband everything am a great wife and all I get back is NOTHING so I guess it depends on the people in marriage and life in general.

Answer 7

She's either not satisfied with you, or has never seen it that way. After all, princesses in the story books get spoiled by their princes. Another possibility is that she doesn't know what or how. Whatever the case, you should probably sit down and direct your question to her in a nonaccusatory manner.

Answer 8

We have to understand two things....

A woman builds her relationship off of "Love"
A man builds his relationship off of, "Respect."

The bible never tells a man to respect his wife, because God new that if a man gave his wife "Love" she would respect him. That's why the bible COMMANDS the man "...to love you wives...", because we are the start.

So if you feel like she's not respecting you, then you need to talk to her. But maybe it's not her....maybe it's you, not giving her enough "Love" or should I say, "Emotional interaction!"

Have you ever thought of that?

Answer 9

Not ALL women are like that, jackass.
You should be more specific and not direct such a statement toward 'women' in general; it's like saying all men are dipshits... seriously.

Anyway, not all women are like that... those who want to be doted upon and expect to give nothing in return are empty inside, therefore must fill their daily live with material things.

Answer 10

That's not true, normally guys gives, woman just response into it. Man sometimes is not too critical of woman responses, man just take responses as resposibilities. man will fail to recognize it if he view it that way.