i was wondering if someone could give me some advice, i hope i can give enough information. I recently started seeing an old bf from 2 years ago, and i thought we were getting along really well and i didnt have any regrets about going out with him again, until this weekend when he said he was goin to come home from the snow on sunday nite and spend time with me cause i have mondays off, but instead he decided to spend more time at the snow and come home tuesday when i start back at work. Am i being to selfish to want to see him some of the weekend or is he being selfish being away for nearly a week at the snow?? why wouldnt someone want to spend some time with thier gf??
2006-08-13 00:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we have only been going bak out for less than a month
2006-08-13 00:18:04 · update #1
he snow boards
2006-08-13 00:22:34 · update #2
He broke his promise, not a good start..why did you break up with him in the first place? Your answer might let you know whether he's worth your time.
2006-08-13 00:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been going out a month. Relax. You've got a right to be upset that he changed his plans on you like that - not so cool - but as for 'why wouldn't he want to spend some time with his girlfriend', that's pretty easy - he's got a life outside of you, as you hopefully have a life outside of him. You haven't been dating that long, and it's an old flame, besides, which can lead to problems, especially depending on how the relationship ended 2 years ago. He may need some space to figure things out. He may just be having a really good time and figure it's easier to just spend a couple extra days than to work out another trip to get back up to do more snowboarding.
Neither of you are being selfish, necessarily. Talk to him about it when he gets back in a non-accusatory tone. Tell him it hurt you that he changed his plans, and see what he says. Say you were really looking forward to it. But realize that maybe he needs some space to figure things out. Just be calm, realize it's not the end of the world, and take it from there.
2006-08-13 07:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Katia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am i the only one who seems to think that spending time with "SNOW" is a weird thing? I mean, is he cheating on her with Frosty the Snowman? Why would he be at the "snow" for a week? Is this in Colorado? Manybe he wanted to enjoy the snow for himself, because if he's from the south, he might never see snow again!!!
2006-08-13 07:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being selfish because you just want to spend time with your boyfriend. I think someone says they will be there for you then they should be. I think he needs his head checking out. If things don't change, get a new boyfriend. You are worth much more than him
2006-08-13 07:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Black Mask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to lie to you I am also in the same situation where I want to have at least one weekend with my boyfriend alone without his friends comming over to disturb our plans. You are not selfish but if it is annoying you talk to your boyfriend about it he might have a reasonable explination or he might have thought that it wouldn't bother you. I am sure when he hears you weren't happy about it he won't do it again or he will ask you to come along.Nothing to worry about.
2006-08-13 07:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a closet FruitloopFlamer and he would rather have his mouth on a HUGE c*ck than on your clit. Either that or he has another clit to twirl in his mouth and doesnt like the dynamics of yours. Which answer fits best is the correct answer!!
2006-08-13 07:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by ItalianKingofHearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have was having a good time?
He wanted some time to himself?
He cheating on you?
Well its one of those, and I don't feel its the last one.
2006-08-13 07:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am with you girl.Ur not being selfish.If he really cares about you,he shud take time out to be with you.Set him straight,now!
2006-08-13 07:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god girl what are you thinking if my bf went away for a week i would be cheering take advantage of it while you can
2006-08-13 07:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by princess_cristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh. guys can be so immature!! there's probably nothing going on. i bet he doesn't realize what he's doing. you should just talk to him :)
2006-08-13 07:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Phoebe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋