i love kissing her,ilove hugging her.and i have done it a lot of times.but now i feel i should be her frnd.how can i ask her to forget me and be some one elses women.we r just 17.we have a long life in front of us.i know i love her but now i feel i dont.i feel my mind being spilt into 2...
what to do??????????????????????????????????
2006-08-13 00:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by Rj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
love kissing her,ilove hugging her.and i have done it a lot of times.but now i feel i should be her frnd.how can i ask her to forget me and be some one elses women.we r just 17.we have a long life in front of us.i know i love her but now i feel i dont.i feel my mind being spilt into 2...
what to do????????????????????????????...
dont feel i loved her out of my desire 4 flesh .no i love her a lot she is the air that i breath but its like i feel i dont need that air,plz dont feel that i loved her for using her.that girl really loves me & that is the only thing she knows.
2006-08-13 00:15:55 · update #1
You have fallen prey to the urge of flesh at a tender stage of life and call it 'love'. You have to first understand what life is all about, then explore things like interacting with a woman physically. Life is a miasma, explore it and enjoy the milestones of truth as you pass on the journey.
2006-08-13 00:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So.....you're saying you love her...but you don't love her? Or maybe you love her only as a friend? Whatever it is, you should be completely honest with her. She deserves at least that much from you. You've obviously developed a trusting relationship with her -- don't continue to mislead her, or she may not ever trust you again.
It's totally normal to feel confused about what you want right now. You're only 17 years old, and you're absolutely correct by saying you have a long life ahead. At your age, in my opinion, you should be thinking of what you want to do about colleges, careers, and your potential future. Serious relationships can come at a later date. I understand your desire to be in a loving relationship, but it doesn't have to be so involved at this point. Just let things ride, and see how it goes. Whatever you do, don't lie to her. She needs to know how you're feeling....like I said, she deserves it.
2006-08-13 00:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is take her to one side and tell her slowly. If you do it like this she will probably understand more than rushing this important discussion. As you are best of friends I am sure that this will not affect your friendship and that you will still be friends after this little 'blip' as ended. And she will find someone else and you will be right by her side to help her out in times of trouble.
2006-08-13 00:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well speak to her. tell her ur not too cure u can cope with it, but say exactly how u said it now, that u care for her n u still wanna be her man, but not in the way that shed like.. if shes ur best friend, im sure shell understand..
2006-08-13 00:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Meme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don worry bout her man,if not you someone else will be dying for her,you jus take the next train out,enjoy
2006-08-13 00:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Too hot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u cant do this to her.....she love u lotsss as u said this so plz plz yaar dont do this to her.....and remember one thing dont marry that person to whom u luv, marry that person who loves you..and she is the only one...so plz yaar
2006-08-16 08:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to cool down and talk to her and explain her without hurting her.
2006-08-13 22:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her i m not interested in u now & now forget me
2006-08-13 00:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a silly young brat...hw cud u do dis to her..
2006-08-13 00:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not clear.
2006-08-13 00:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by patrick w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋