ate all of our food left poopoo in the toilet destroyed my dolls and also funked up our house there mother is here with them i try telling her but she dosen't do anything about it my mom is sick of it too but we can't kick them out then they want have anywhere esle to go what should i do im getting very tired of them please help???
2006-08-12 23:13:38 · 12 answers · asked by GirlLab 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
your mom needs to threaten them. she should tell them something like 'we know you need help right now, so we have taken you in. however, you and your children have been reaking havvok in our house. we cant live like this. if you want to stay here, you need to abide by our house rules(insert list of rules/compaints here). if you cant do that, then we are going to have to ask yout o leave. this is hard for me to tell you, but we tried to help you and if you dont respect our house, then we cant let you stay here.
2006-08-13 00:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom, to set some ground rules. this is important. tell them that they have a time limit to find a place to stay that is reasonable. Help the mother look for a job and an apartment. this is out of hand. make sure the rules are set strongly. good luck.
2006-08-13 00:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have many things to do :
1st- Ignore them
2nd- try to make them cry .. i mean like doing things they cant do .. buy choclate and eat it in from of them ... just to make them cry for choclate .. then when they promise they wont be bad .. give them a little ..
3rd - Take a picture of them doing one of these things then threaten them to show thier parents the pic
4th-Dont kick them out .. Just kick them :)
5th-Dont talk to them
6th-tell thier parents
7th-act as if you are mad/crazy .. and going to kill them .. scream at them
8th-Keep your dolls in the bed ... and dont cry in the bed becaue your dolls may feel real bad ..
9th-Find someone to get a strong curse to freeze them for days
10th-Cook some food with roaches and big ants and make them eat it ..
i dont know ... i think i have no answer .. But at least i tried
2006-08-12 23:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If don't kick them out, you won't have a home for too much longer if they are destroying everything.
I suggest your mother have them get a hotel on their own or start to pay rent for their stay/damage they have done.
If not, it is your mom's own fault for allowing it. Can't complain if don't do anything about it.
2006-08-12 23:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having no place to go should give them motivation to start respecting you, your mother and your house. I would tell them they will have to find another place to go if they are not going to follow the rules in your house.
2006-08-13 00:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by dawn27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing..My niece is staying with us until her mom gets out of jail...she lies to get my son's in trouble, she does things that the boys get in trouble for...she's rude and gives the rotten looks and mean words..DEEP SIGH!! You just have to deal..cause if you've said something and NOTHING has been done about it..fact is ...they will leave someday..TRY NOT TO KILL HER...I mean THEM!!!
2006-08-13 01:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply tell them how you feel and ask them to clean up their act and be grateful that they even have a place to stay. If they don't, tell them they must leave. Nobody deserves to be disrespected, especially in their own home! Good luck!
2006-08-12 23:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Evie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them if they dont respect your house,you dont respect them.and you better flush the toilet cause ur not a dog,if u want food all u have to do is ask me and ill get you some dont eat all of it.dont detroy my dolls.
2006-08-13 02:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to respect your house or they will be finding themselves a new places to live.
2006-08-12 23:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to get some respect dont let them near ur stuff til they get respect gd luck
2006-08-12 23:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋