Been going out with my boyfriend for 7months now and i have never been happier.I love him and he totally adores me.I have my own place but i crash at his place like 90 percent of the time.Now i feel like i want to be there permanently but he aint popping the question.Do i ask him to marry me?
2006-08-12 22:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by Mikillah 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Has the subject come up before? Do you know his thoughts and feelings about marriage? He may not want to get married yet, find out first! 7 months isnt long. I was with my partner 6 years before we decided to get married, we have been wed 5 years now and its great, but being married is a big comitment and should be given a lot of thought before being entered into. Also, you need to do it for the right reasons and not for flightful, romantic or fanciful reasons. My advice, give it at least 6 months, if nothing has changed and you still feel the same way then go for it, but have that conversation first eh!
2006-08-12 23:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's not--it's only been 7 months. crashing 90% is not the same as a permanent marriage. Relax, maybe?
2006-08-13 06:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, and calm down. When partners share the same wish, if you are communicating well, it will come up as a natural and mutually felt decision.
Give the idea more time to mature, and, simply, enjoy the relationship now for what it is.
2006-08-13 06:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it might be wise to wait a little longer - at least until you both move in together under a roof in which you share under both your names. Wait a while and then see what happens!
2006-08-13 06:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! You really risk driving him away when you are too eager. Besides, you'd miss out on that wonderful once-in-a-lifetime experience of BEING asked by the one you love, and you'd rob him of his chance to ask you!!!
2006-08-13 06:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a girl? If yes don't ask that question. If you do everything may go down the tubes, wait till he asks you k?
2006-08-13 06:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by hey_finny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you think you can really know a person in 7 months, but give it awhile longer and hopefully its worth waiting for.
2006-08-13 06:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to think about it and ask complete strangers on yahoo, then its probably best you dont. If you second guess yourself, then you shouldnt. not something to take lightly.
2006-08-13 06:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should read some tips on this site on how to do that
2006-08-13 06:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. it's only been 7 months. that isn't very long. if you ask, he'll probably get rid of you.
2006-08-13 06:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋