she is my best friend but i love her.if i tell her she wud never talk to me.wat shud i do now?take this question very seriously.plz..................
2006-08-12 22:44:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe she is not gay, maybe she is, how would we know?
2006-08-12 22:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u think ur friend is really very good and u can't live without her.
u said she's having a b.f so, why don't u have one so that both of u couples can go together n hang around. i think this will help 4 of u have fun.
i think ur friend is not talking to u coz she has a b.f n she thinks that his b.f will like u n leave her. so it's better if u have one.
n if u don't wan't to have one b.f. then the other thing is, u can help her in her problems like u can help her to get close to her b.f so she will talk to u n she'll think that u r not going to take her b.f with u.
n if this is also not possible. then, u should ignore her so that she will realise ur importance n then later may come to u.
and very important.
If she doesn't come to u after trying all these methods u should leave her- that is my advice to u. because i think that if that girl has a bit feeling 4 u she will surely come to u after all these.so,
all the best. World has a lot of real frns so don't get sad make other friends if she still doesn't listens to u.
byeeeee n good luck!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-13 06:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by googly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just got a crush on her, I don't think you should tell her anything, if she has a boyfriend she's probably straight, if you tell her, you'll scare her off, she may even turn against you, did you feel like this about any other girl? Is there no-one else you can talk this over with. Sometimes young people get there feelings mixed up, you are maybe just a bit confused.
2006-08-13 05:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that she has a bf maybe she is straight or maybe she is IN THE CLOSET lesbian trying to hide her real self. But you never know.I think you shud just keep it the way it is, or you may just scare her off. And i think you can ask her just casually what she thinks of homosexuality, or something that sort to give you some ideas about her sexuality.
2006-08-13 07:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Roosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can pose, in conversation, the scenario "Could you share your heart with BOTH your boyfriend and another girl?" See what she says--and be prepared for an answer you might not want to hear.
You should know then if it's best to remain silent and let the two carry on, hard as it is to do.
2006-08-13 05:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself that she does not love you because she has a boyfriend. So I would say if you cannot put aside your feelings then you are going to lose her anyway. So if you can't put away your feelings, go ahead and tell her. The real question is are you willing to risk your friendship?
2006-08-13 05:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by bloggerfiend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your case doesn't come under the purview of mentally eccentric consultations, better go and look for a b/f for you, so that the present piquant situation could be controlled well in time.
2006-08-17 01:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very Filmi. Same story as in "GIRLFRIEND"
Its not good for you my dear. Instead be a friend to her and make some other male friends. Who knows some days you may be attracted to some one of your opposite sex.
Its good to have a girl friend but to a certain extend.
Try not to get involved in her emotionally. Be practical and accept the fact that you are a girl .
BEST OF LUCK.
any query please ctc me.
Regards,
AGNELO PEREIRA
2006-08-13 06:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Agnelo P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ask this question to your friend like, as if this is not your question.Watch how she responds.Then proceed.Nothing will happen.Wonder thing is that after some experiance you,yourself will come to know that,there is no 'mazaa' in what you are doing.Nothing is wrong in your world unless its harmful to you.have fun.
2006-08-15 13:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by madhurima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your best friend, ok good but may not be the same with hr. you love hr, u should. u feel she does not love u? better prepare ur self to find some one with reciprocal feelings. other wise what is the meaning in disturbing hr!! let her have a good time and u too.
2006-08-13 09:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by j_chiramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some cute guys here..be more social, date some guys and show her that ur not a les..there is a les in my school and my discipline teacher detain her for a week and when she is about to be released, our teacher ask us to help her to be not a les
2006-08-13 05:52:19 · answer #11 · answered by Pandai gile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋