im leaving for my higher studies abroad soon, my girlfriend is tensed,feeling insecure all the time.i feel that too but i cant do anything about it.can u people please give me some ways i can keep this relationship intact?i am feeling this is going for an end soon after i leave the country and when i come back i may not find that same love in her eyes.we love each other intensely and we both wanna keep it that way.please give me some tips.weird answers are not expected
2006-08-12 22:37:42 · 10 answers · asked by loving_u_4ever_n_always 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make sure you both have Internet connection. it would be weird at first but you'll get the hang of it. i have a long distance relationship but we're doing OK. we spend as much time as we could together. time difference sucks but such is life: you gotta sacrifice a bit to make it work.
we bought headsets with long wires. that way we can keep each other company even while we do our own stuff like cleaning the room or simply doing paperwork. we eat together, too.
and believe it or not, we even sleep with headsets on sometimes, lol. saying i love you till we fall asleep.
don't forget the web cam. its a survival tool.
visits are possible for you, too, i suppose? we travel long haul, who cares? we take turns in visiting each other, and take the opportunity to have a vacation.
good luck! and yes, we've been at it for years, so cheer up!
2006-08-12 22:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wont be so freaked out if she knows the relationship is for sure, make it in a way 'official'. give her some sort of promise ring letting her know that you wont be off doing things and she is obligated to being your as well. The rings look nice and you guys can be somewhat less tense about being apart
2006-08-12 22:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by c3345 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will both have Internet. Chatting on web cam is the best way since you can see each others expressions. Phone calls are important, get calling cards to save money. Also, she if it is possible for her to come visit you there. Send gifts by mail. And of course, never forget important dates like birthdays and anniversaries.
2006-08-12 22:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by maryjoy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man!!!!!!!i know its a tense problem but u need to chill!!!!give your self a break!!!!explain everything to her!!!!!!!just remain calm!tell her that you love her loads and can keep in touch with her by mails or by chattin!!!!!!sometimes call her up too!!!!!in that case she wont forget you !!!!!or ask her to marry you n youll both can live a happily ever after life!!!!!!!!tel her again how much you love her!!!!!!dude you forgot to tell ur age so im not sure about the marriage thing!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-12 22:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just going abroad not leaving the world u can contact her daily n u both make sure dat u wont get in to any other rel. n dnt make false promises dat u cnt fulfil
2006-08-12 22:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is that thing that cant be lost if it is true 4 each other . see u both can keep contact with each other and most important is keep trust on each other i am sure ur relation will not end up so easyly
2006-08-12 23:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need tips. Just believe in it. When you come back, maybe it's over. Than it wasn't mend to be. Did you think about it that maybe she don't find the same love in your eyes.
2006-08-12 22:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by AJK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be nuts to get in a long term relationship,I once got and now I'm regretting it most.DONT!
2006-08-12 22:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by soroush_1363_ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do work if thats what u both want trust me ive been through it
2006-08-12 22:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by michelle b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that no matter how long distance between both of you.the real thing is L.O.V.E!!!!
peace
2006-08-12 22:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by feel_the_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋